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We will be talking the BM to court once again for keeping the kids from visting.
Does anyone know a Sprint phone that does screen shots of all the texts, a couple of people said this really helped them in court. We are going to need them. Sprint told us the phone we just got has that capability but it doesn't.
I know there is a site called treasuremytext.com but it cannot be used in court in FL.
Thanks Everyone.
Tina
The BM and my husband have been seperated for over 10yrs but the BM has a HUGE control issue. She hates to see her DH happy, and even went so far as contacting my parents (talking crap about him) in hopes to stop our wedding. After 4 yrs together, her spitefulness and manipulation doesnt work. She is now at the point where she cant blame him and be affective so now she has turned the blame on me. Recently, she told my husband, he will no longer see the kids because I'AM such a hateful spiteful b*tch. Its all very confusing to me because just over a month ago, things were fine.
I have been praying for my bs protection when I am not around. It is hard and tiresome to be on guard 24/7. I don't have a problem with them playing 2gether it's how they play. Hiding hid toys, making my bs whine, cry and look for stuff or under the covers, always taking him out of site or hiding from him( last year my ss was calling my bs name who was 2 at the time. My bs was hiding in the dark behind a door. I found him and told him not to try and scare a 2 yr old. Of course he said he was just playing).
His mom and I had been dating for a few months. Mom and Dad flew in for college graduation (mine and my younger brothers). It was Feb 1994. I picked up my GF and her kid and brought them to my condo to meet my parents. The Skid, then 1yo, had a raging cold and was a little snot ball. My dad had a raging cold and was miserable.
So, I love this website and am so greatful for all of your input. It's been a rocky week and an awful Christmas. I think I need some advice on my situation in general-I'll try and keep it brief.
So now I'm just frustrated at the world, which means I'm spilling out on the other skids and my DW. This is not good at all. I have to find a way to get the frustration out because the others don't deserve it. Unfortunately, not much I can do about the brat (15SD), no matter what tone you take with her it's the same answer, rudeness on top of disrespect.
Christmas Eve was great. Christmas day was incredible. Mom's birthday (Dec 26th) was very nice. It is odd having a mother who is nearly a year younger than I am. She turned 46 day before yesterday 
. Add 20yrs to get her real age.
Ok it has been awhile since I have posted anything. Things have been up and down around here. Mostly down. I have been seriously "something"..perhaps it is depression. I am at my wits end with my SD. It is like I am anticipating these next six months so much. Sd is doing as little as she can get away with.
I had a huge blow up with her dad. It was ugly. Lots of screaming and yelling, mostly on my part lol. But I just have not felt like I am ever being heard.
My husbands X does not even have custody of her son. I have busted my butt to give my all to him. I have three boys of my own. When he first came here he sucked the life out of me daily and was very demanding of my attention. He has totally taken to my 13 year old and pushed me 11 year old to the side. He demands all of our attention. I have catered to him. Christmas I tried to make fair. Needless to say he went to his Moms family on Christmas. Came home with an xbox 360, PSP, Phone, camera etc etc. I realize that his mother is his mother and I can never replace her.
On the advice of llorraine23, I'm starting a countdown.
15SD leaves on January 7th.
Today is December 28th. She leaves in 10 days. 10 long days.
I was alone in the house with 15SD and 16SS (good guy) for 2 hours. All was quiet because she was downstairs. Then she came up and wanted to play.
I'm so tired of her, I screwed up and got in a stupid pointless fight just because right now, every word out of her mouth bugs me.
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