Playful SS
I have been praying for my bs protection when I am not around. It is hard and tiresome to be on guard 24/7. I don't have a problem with them playing 2gether it's how they play. Hiding hid toys, making my bs whine, cry and look for stuff or under the covers, always taking him out of site or hiding from him( last year my ss was calling my bs name who was 2 at the time. My bs was hiding in the dark behind a door. I found him and told him not to try and scare a 2 yr old. Of course he said he was just playing). Anyway ss use to tickle my bs to the point my bs told me he doesnt like when his sb tickles him. He still kept doing it the next day and I had to scream at my ss that bs does not like to be tickled and stop it. In which I had my concerns before but now bs is 3 yrs old he is more verbal now. One time I heard bs telling my ss to let him out the room and my ss told him to stay in (but tried to play it off). I told him never to restrain him in anyway.. Of course he said he was just playing. I know how children play and sometimes they are fine other times I am not comfortable.. Some things I see and hear don't look right. Especially for him to be 10 years older..I just think he is sneaky if no one is around he seems to be a little bit more rougher or even more playful with him. But I will continue to pray for myself and for all of us. If there is something wrong to remove it.
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Ten years is a big age
Ten years is a big age difference. Your stepson should see your biological son as more of a baby than a playmate. If you sense something is wrong, I wouldn't leave them along together. Boys are rough. My teens play really rough with my 8 year. But they didn't do that when he was 3!
That is what I think as well.
That is what I think as well. He is too old to play with him like that. I know he is still a kid but my ss is 13. To me he should be showing him things and playing with him. I understand they are
Boys and all but I think? " I think" I know the difference that is why I thought I would see how others thought about it. But husband thinks my ss is innocent but he wasn't with him for about 2 or 3 years due to military deployments. But the BM is a prostitute, drugs and was leaving with other people so she could party.. So that is why I am concerned. My dh had to take him away from her after receiving a call that the BM was not doing right. And my ss did not want to go but my dh made him go.
My SS was 12 years older than
My SS was 12 years older than my DD and sometimes I caught him trying to restrain her and was making her cry - I put a stop to it - don't be afraid to tell your SS to knock it off and then enforce it - your SS3 only has you as his advocate - your SS is too old to be pulling this shit - so tell your DH to make him stop or you will - you have the right as your DS mother to protect him and stop the shit - so exercise that right - your SS I am sure is pissed that your DH has another child but tough shit - if his parents had stayed together and had another child he would have had to accept that child as well. Children do not get to decide how many kids their parents have that is the parents choice. So stand up for your child and let your DH know in no uncertain terms that this behavior will not be tolerated because if something God forbids happens to your DS - not only will you be devastated and your life ruined but your SS's life will be ruined because something happened that shouldn't have. Accidents happen all the time and people get really hurt and it changes lives and ruins relationships so you need to stop it. If you BS was accidentally killed or maimed for life how would you feel - that is what should propel you to make your SS and your DH understand that this will not longer be tolerated starting today!!!