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I've missed you...

minerva385's picture

Hubby and I have been fighting a LOT lately. It seems like everyday for the past few weeks we have had at least one huge blow out that leaves us both furious, not talking, and sometimes not even in the same room for the whole entire day. Our sex life has suffered tremendously and obviously our relationship in general. I've been thinking about calling a quits. That much fighting, that intense, is not something I want to spend the rest of my life doing.

But then last night we were laying in bed. I'm not sure who started it, but we ended up wrestling around, biting, pinching, tickling, stealing the covers, throwing pillows, fun playful stuff like we "usually" did. It ended in a great big bear hug. While I was laying there in Hubby's arms, I hear him tell me "I've missed you". It doesn't seem like much, but it made my month. We started talking. We'd talked before after our fights, but it had never really taken us far. We'd identify what each of our "problems" were, but that's it. Last night we really talked. We figured out a plan so that we hopefully don't end up with the long drawn out fighting again. I know it's not going to be easy, but right now it feels so good to have my husband back!!!

Happy Monday!

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LValleyGirl28's picture

My hubby and I do that "bed time beat down" some times and it REALLY helps. Especially when I whack him in the head with a pillow!

Glad to know you're doing better!

Big sigh of relief!

coySM's picture

that's great news!!!! hopefully an indication of all the great things to come!