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I used to get really up in arms when I felt like my fiancees BM was getting over on him by shortening his parental rights. Esp in regard to visitation. After so many instances of refusal or replanning to suit her own needs, I've given up being emotionally attached to it. I just hope my fiancee realizes what hes giving up sooner or later.
DH is on his way to go pick up ss15 so that he can discuss with the boy moving in with us.
he has been telling his mother all week long that when he turns 16 - (2 months away) that he can choose where he lives and he is moving in with us.
After doing some reading, it's nice to know that I am not alone in the step battle, as I originally thought I was. DH has always been over protective of me and super suportive, that is, unless darling ss is involved. I have heard everything from you hate the kid (ss is 23) because he's just like me (he's nothing like his father.
Lockdown was started. They're coming back home.
At least I'll get a few hours with my kids alone.
This weekend is going to absolutely and totally be a trainwreck. Those kids wanted to see their father and they can't. It's going to take an added amount of patience this weekend.
Oldest SS has started bringing his car over to wash every other day. Now I don't mind if he washes his car here once in a while or even once a week, maybe twice if the weather turned out bad but we can't afford the water for every other day. Oldest SS is pretty good otherwise but I find this annoying esp. since H used the term it was "NO BIG DEAL" OMG those words set me off and bring flash backs of me being forced to endure youngest SS's bad behavior and campaign of hate.
I thought I was "lucky" that my hair stylist come to my house, well last night I was proven wrong.
My MIL went out of town yesterday and my DH took her to the airport leaving my FIL with me at our house...I love the guy but an hour with him seems like a lifetime. He complains about everything and has an opinion about everything. With trying to get SS6 to school and keeping it quiet so my 8 month old daughter can nap, it was a little chaotic to say the least. My FIL has to have to surround sound blasting and I can't stand it, but he is a guest.
First after reading posts on here its nice to know there are people who understand what im going through...
a little intro i am BM to my BD5 and my BS 10months old and full time step mom to SS8 and SS6.
Ever wake up look at you DH and go " When did he turn into such an ASS " ?
OK, MY SD AND HER BABY MOVED IN WITH US, SHE'S 20. SHE DOESN'T PAY RENT, BUY FOOD, NOTHING! OVER THE PAST COUPLE OF WEEKS, I'VE NOTICED HER LEAVING HER TV/CLOSET LIGHT ON ALL NIGHT, WHILE SHE'S ASLEEP, SO I TALKED TO DH, AND EXPLAINED TO HIM MY FRUSTRATIONS AND HE SAID YOU TELL HER ABOUT IT, AND I'LL SUPPORT YOU 110%. WELL, WASN'T I WRONG. OUR ELECTRIC BILL IS OVER $200/MO. SO I KINDLY LEFT A NOTE ON HER DOOR, ASKING HER TO PLEASE BE SURE TO TURN OFF HER COMPUTER, LIGHT & TV WHEN IT IS NOT IN USE, ESPECIALLY AT BEDTIME.
You may be his wife, but you are replacble dear. His children are not replace-able nor are they dispensable......
I stole this comment by SpunkiDoolittle2 from another blog because it's along the lines of something I've actually been thinking about lately.