So SD12 posted on her Facebook status the other day that she is moving and is "very sad." I asked stbx-H about it and he said she'd called him the night before and told him but said she didn't know where and that BM wouldn't tell her when she asked. I asked H if he talked to BM but of course he said "no" because in true min-wife fashion stbx-H usually communicates with BM through SD12, allowing SD12 to make decisions and then trusting that SD12 will consult with BM on her own.

I just had to share this story.

If you're anything like I was before I married a man with children, then there was a time when you used to live for the weekends. You worked hard all week and couldn't wait for 5pm on Friday to roll around in anticipation of all of the fun activites planned for the weekend, or maybe just some rest & relaxation at home.

So yesterday was H's birthday and I really tried to make it special for him, but even then the impending doom of our union reared it's ugly head without warning. I had already talked to H about the possibly of me having to relocate for my career when we were talking about separating. At that time he'd made it clear that he would not relocate with me, because afterall he'd move to this city specifically to be closer to his daughter.