Well he asked and I said yes! It’s official now He asked me while I was in sweats working on a big paper and it was perfect. Egads, I love him so much! I told him about Anon’s recommendation of sending an email after picking up SD and in doing so giving her a couple of days to get used to the idea before being around their daughter. So that's the plan. FDH will tell SD alone while I’m at work.

I just got a call from DH. He told me that he went through SD11's Ipod this morning. She was up texting her mom until 11 pm last night and called her at 11:30 pm. Apparently she was telling BM how mean DH and I to her and that she wants to come home. When yesterday she was asking DH if he had heard from our lawyer because she really wants to be with us for good!

As a parent, all I hope for is that one day my child finds someone that loves her as much as she loves them. Someone who cherishes her, respects her, is her best friend and confidant; someone who won’t be capricious with her feelings. What race, creed or gender that person is, is inconsequential.

Am I in the minority? If your child fell in love with someone of a different religion, would you be upset? What about a different race? What if your child fell in love with someone of the same sex as her or she?

So my DH seems to think it's weird that I would let my BS4 grandmother watch our BD4months. He says it's weird, wrong, and that I should respect him on this bc it's his daughter to. I don't think it's weird one bit but he gave me the scenario of his EXW mother watching our daughter, and YES that's weird they ALL hate him and according to him were very mean to him. My BS4 grandmother is the absolute kindest lady I have ever met. The first day I met her I was 15 years old (I"M now 25) and she took me in as hers, she's been like a second mother to me.