After SD's false report of abuse to police. And after pouring out my heart to DH and letting him no under any circumstances there is just absolutely no way I can live in the same house as SD we cam to a conclusion. DH is going to sublease a place just until summer and stay there with SD and really try to work on their relationship and get into her head. DD and I will continue to stay in our own home while mommy works from home and gives her lots of love and attention. DH and I are going to skype and phone call a lot and have date nights while SD16 will be be at BMs.

My stomach is in knots right now. We caught her sneaking out and told her she would be in big trouble after school. But she didn't come home. She texted BM not to worry about her. Its been a full day since we last saw her.The police spent the night patrolling the area to no avail.

Her friends told us she got picked up by an older guy but they don't know his name or where he lives. We have been going th through her computer and trying to pull up phone records. DH has taken every thing we have. Learned to the sheriff's office.

SHe likes to let her laundry pile up for weeks then tries to stuff it all in the laundry machine. I needed to get DD's cloth diapers clean and dry quick because she was running low. I open the machine to mildew smelling over packed mess. I hate it when she just throws her laundry in the machine over stuffs it and doesn't bother to turn it on until someone else needs it. I ask her to come do her laundry so I can clean DD's. She comes stomping in with an attitude and starts pressing the buttons extra slow.

She has failed the school year. Not one grade above a D. She was doing good earlier but just got lazy. DH told her to hand over the phone because she is grounded grades are nothing to be played with. Its not like she tries so hard and fails its that she doesn't try gets home and jumps on the computer and cell phone. Always saying she doesn't have homework the same thing at BM's house. She ignored DH so he snatched the phone right out of her hand. She got hysterical and threatened to kill herself or run away if he took her phone. I mean she was acting insane.