SHe likes to let her laundry pile up for weeks then tries to stuff it all in the laundry machine. I needed to get DD's cloth diapers clean and dry quick because she was running low. I open the machine to mildew smelling over packed mess. I hate it when she just throws her laundry in the machine over stuffs it and doesn't bother to turn it on until someone else needs it. I ask her to come do her laundry so I can clean DD's. She comes stomping in with an attitude and starts pressing the buttons extra slow. She doesn't listen when I tell her the machine is too full and to take some clothes out. When they are done she tries packing them in the drier. After about an hour she starts whining their still damp. I tell her to take some clothes out and stop over packing the machine I have laundry that needs to get done. She tells me no I'm just going to have to wait for her clothes to dry with an eyeroll. Um excuse me who is the adult here! I tell her fine if she wants to have an attitude I will just take some of her clothes out and they can dry later.

She calls me a bitch. She actually fixed her mouth to call me that. Nope no more I'm done. I grab a trash bag and start throwing her shit in it from the dryer. I tried to be nice at first but you hit the wrong button. As I'm doing that I find some of my underwear and night shirts. Why is she stealing my freaking underwear and night shirts! I yell for her to stop taking my stuff. She yells back that she would wear my ugly stuff. She then sees I am throwing her stuff out. She calls DH crying. DH tells her he will talk when he gets home. She comes at me saying. " I fucking hate you". All right you hate me then and you wanna curse at me. Fine then you don't need to use my Tv, my internet, or any other luxury. I was about to call BM to come get her but DH showed up.

He asked her if she lost her mind talking to me like that. She's crying saying I lost my mind. I told her after years of your little attitude and disrespect I've had enough. DH asked me to go on a walk with DD and let off some steam while he handles SD. When I get back home SD is packing bags saying she's staying at BM's for the summer. Before she can twist the story to BM DH calls her and lets her know what happened.

BM pulls up and lets SD know if she thought she was going to be able to escape at BM's she thought wrong. She will not be disrespecting any adult like that and getting away with it. SD tries to say I'm lying because I just hate her. BM said she is grounded so don't be surprised when she sees a bare room at her house. You don't raise your voice or curse at any adult she don't care who it is. SD leaves with a final I hate you glare thrown my way. Thank you BM for finally doing whats right and not just taking SD's side. I've had it with the drama. Finally I have some time o enjoy playing with DD and try some pinterest ideas.