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MIL is in town

porcelian-doll's picture

My MIL is visiting. I am not enthusiastic about this in the slightest. Despite the fact that she knows I am albino she buys me sunscreen. She is always petting my head and rubbing my hair. The way she says my name in that shrill voice I can't take it. Its not that she is a horrible person or anything its that her presents makes me uncomfortable.

my stepdaughter hates me Please help

BOBSKITTY's picture

my boyfriend and i met on the internet 2 yrs ago,his daughter 8 at the time came 17 hrs to meet me ,and we fell in love,a few mths later he came and moved me in there home,17 hrs away,ive worked with his daughter for 2 yrs now ,she just wont accept me,thinks im taking her daddy from her or just trying to get me to leave ,i love them both with all my heart,she will not only not do what i ask her she will talk back,hit me ect.please HELP.

Wow. I am speechless

just.his.wife's picture

A few weeks ago I got a phone call from my attorney BM's therapist (not sure of degree level) was asking/ requesting permission for BM to send me a letter.

Due to the RO that is in place she cannot have any contact with me and the therapist was trying to find I guess an alternate route for BM to send me this letter. We knew that BM had been doing her anger management classes in jail and that she was taking her required parenting classes in jail, this was the first we had heard that she was in 'therapy'.

Just a Little Vent - HH Makes Me STEAM!

Crazy_in_Ohio's picture

HH is so frustrating. She enjoys doing whatever she wants, whenever she wants and however she wants. She then will make SO the jerk in all situations. Like the latest one: Today she sends an email outlining how much money SO should have left over after he pays child support and cash medical assistance (he currently doesn't have employer provided insurance and couldn't get private - he tried - he might as well have just jumped off a bridge it was so expensive).

I just don't understand this lady. A vent about BM.

GameOn's picture

BM asked last mother's day if she could keep the kids overnight when it fell on DH's time. DH said that was fine but he expects the same in return to which she's all in agreement and of courses. Father's day roles around and he asks if he can keep the kids overnight and return them to her in the morning instead of that evening (exactly what he did for her). She replies back with ask the kids what they want to do. SS is 6 SD is 8. The last time I checked a 6 year old and an 8 year don't get to make or be involved in adult decisions.

Ok I really think there is something major going on at the inlaw compund and directly related to ss...

hismineandours's picture

OK-this is all just conjecture but I really feel like something big is going down. And truth be told, Im excited about it. So don't dash my hopes. When things happen, things get shaken up, that's when change can occur and frankly changes have been long overdue in that household.

Here's why I think something is going down_

1)ss15 called dh last week after 7 months of silence. After telling dh he was done and no longer having a father. He just called him up as if nothing was wrong.

Not sure I can keep my mouth shut any longer

second string's picture

So I'm sitting here listening to SS8 talk about BM. He thinks the absolute world of her and I understand this completely...she IS his mom. However, what he doesn't know is that she is a f'ing loser that lives off the government, popping one baby out after another with all different men. I bite my tongue every weekend, and to date, I have never uttered a single bad thing about his mother in his presence. The problem I am having now is keeping my mouth shut about the rest of her family.

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