I added it up and in only 50 days he has sent her $645. (We live below the federal line of poverty.) I saw his messages they had back and forth with each other. She was asking for another $175 and another $200. Interestingly when he gave her the previous $200 on March 31 it coincides with a tweet she made that same say that said "shoes, booze, and tattoos living the tweet life".
I brought all this to DH's attention and he ....attempted to gaslight me. He said it was all wages she earned and I'm looking at it all wrong. Am I really?
SD whines for money and DH whines about the drive to get it to her, but not anymore. He gets paid to PayPal and has a PayPal debit card now. At some point he deposits what he's accumulated into our bank account to help pay the bills. Lately SD has been working with DH. So she then claims she can pay him back. When she works with him he gets the money for both their hours and then he pays her out of it.
Thought I'd share this. Influecer makes Tiktok on how she feels about people telling her not to discipline her stepkids. The comments are rolling in.
I will start off by saying I should have been more mature when I heard SD18 had gotten in a brawl. The woman who fought her I used to work with, but I never really talked to her because she was the sister of SD's girlfriend and usually SD tells lies to about me to anyone who she wants pity from.
Out of all the places a person can work in our area I find out I work in the same department as SD18's girlfriend. I was dropping off DH's truck when SD18 ran up to me. (He got her a temp job for her driving farm trucks with him). She tells me that I'm in the same department as her girlfriend and yesterday I asked her girlfriend questions about the work app.
SD18 calls DH yesterday and it suddenly turned into a heated argument. She got livid with DH because he would not drive over to her house (next town over) and mow her lawn for her even though it was almost dark outside. She was going to prom and having a party at her place afterwards. She wanted her house to look nice for it. DH refused and eventually hung up on her after he told her to stop talking to him like that.
I'm pretty sure they will only stay 2 days but...I just happen to be getting a new puppy tomorrow. Why are they coming now? They've been staying with friends of ours and those friends have all their other kids and people who usually live with them gone for spring break. They want the house alone to themselves for a couple of days and so SS and his son need to be gone during that time. DH asked if they could come here and I gave a nervous ok.
DH ended up being the one to talk to SS24 and SS23. I had gone soft and said I would allow 2 more months. At the end of March they have to be out. It doesn't matter if they have a place to stay or not. It's up to them to use the next 2 months to prepare so the have something to go to. SS24 got a job and is now staying with a friend. He asked DH's dad if he could stay with him and he said no. He said the same thing I said. SS24 will be making enough money to rent his own place. DH told me SS24 plans on still staying at our place on the weekends while he has his son.
First thing in the morning I'm telling SS24 that its not working out having him live at our house and he can't live here anymore. I've been so tired of him and his son who he brings over every weekend and the last few weeks suddenly he brings him on Thursdays.
Sorry if I rant or ramble.
Since its her birthday DH wanted to get her a cake. I'm surprised she showed up. I didn't think she would after she hung up on DH last night because he wouldn't buy her alcohol again.
Now I just wish she would leave. Yay there she goes out the driveway!