Kicking out SS24
First thing in the morning I'm telling SS24 that its not working out having him live at our house and he can't live here anymore. I've been so tired of him and his son who he brings over every weekend and the last few weeks suddenly he brings him on Thursdays.
Since last Saturday he's made it obvious how much of a leech he is. On Saturday DH was in a logging accident and snapped both bones in his forearm. He had to be pulled out of a tree by a bunch of firemen and paramedics. He was swinging upside down from his safety harness after the top of a tree swung down and crushed him. He had surgery yesterday. He's in a lot of pain. I've had to help him do everything and I mean everything that a person usually does for themselves. On the same day as DH's accident DD10 comes down with a fever. They tested her for everything but she still had a fever for 6 days. She also developed oral thrush somehow. She is in too much pain to eat and wakes up crying from her tongue hurting. Her tongue looks like it got acid poured on it.
I'm close to melt down. Actually I already melted down once yesterday. I was so exhausted and so stressed. On top of all this all the animals need to be fed on our little farm. The garbage needs to be taken out (I got it done). The dishes need to go into the dish washer, clothes need washed and house needs to be picked up. Its all on me to get it done. DD10 helps out when she can. Does either SS23 and SS21 help? No they have not. They've done nothing even when directly asked.
Then tonight SS23's son keeps walking into the bathroom slamming the door. He keeps doing this every 10 minutes or so. We have a small home. Everyone hears everything and I have 2 people in a lot of pain and can barely sleep for more than 30 minutes at a time. So I tell his son the third time of him going into the bathroom (I'm sitting in family room and all rooms including bedrooms and bathroom is connected to the family room) that if he is having stomach troubles then its fine if he needs to keep going to bathroom but if he isn't then he needs to stop going back and forth through the house. He then runs back to his dad and before I know it SS23 is coming with him. I tell SS23 what I told his son. Then SS starts going off on me about how his son is scared to go in the bathroom. It took me a moment to realize what had just happened. He was going off on me in my home because he was too lazy and hung over to walk his scared son to the bathroom. And I'm just supposed to guess that his son was scared? Not only this but flashbacks of SD tattling on me over things I never did or telling a backwards story trying to get me in trouble came back to me.
SS23 was already walking a fine line and he picked the wrong time to raise his voice and talk down to me. I would have kicked him out anyway for it somehow or would have to hope DH would do it. Nothing is stopping me. He has to go. He has to take his son and their dog with him. I can't wait.
DH has been saying he has a plan to get the adult kids out of the house but so far I've still been waiting for his "plan" to be put into action. Go figure the stepmom gets to be the one to do it.