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Well, as per Yogi Berra, it's ain't over, till it's over. SD's apology on the internet post, was a big joke. She just directed it to society, that her comment was misconstrued. My husband had a fit when he came home and read it. He contacted biomom and they had a clashing battle on the phone Friday afternoon. It didn't resolve anything. I have to go take all the information to our local police department on Monday to file official criminal charges and then also consult with an attorney about civil charges for defamation of character.
So is it Sunday now and we have called a lot to try to get a hold of the kids, still haven't heard form them. I know that they are okay b/c sd called my sister in law to see if he could sleep over on Friday she told him her son was sleeping over my house but he never called us. He had a game yesterday and didn't call us, so we didn't go. I am really not sure what is going on. I told my husband that he better get a hold of her and let her have it. I know that they haven't been with her all weekend, which is crap. She shipped them off to her parent’s house since Thursday.
Hi everyone! I don't know if I am going crazy but since I found this site and have been letting out my feelings things with the kids seem to be getting a lot better! Maybe I just feel better knowing that I am not alone - nor am I crazy for feeling the way I do. My 12yr old SS made me a pancake for dessert last night! And yes, the smoke alarm went off a few times and the pancake was a little on the charcoal side - but it was such a lovely gesture, I enjoyed every mouthful!
This is silly but I bought some books about stepparenting and for some strange reason, I hide them so my husband doesn't see me reading it or that I have it. Is anyone else doing the same? I don't know why I do that. Just wondering if anyone else does this?
She runs luke warm & cold with me! Since they were older when I came into the picture, I have always kind-of left the ball in both SD's courts as far as what kind of relationship they were comfortable having with me. I don't throw myself at them...lets go here..let's do this..call them to chat..push a relationship..or anything but I have made many, many gestures towards them over the last 5 years or so....!
Something bothered me the other night when my new husband and I were looking at our wedding pics online. We were snuggled up on the couch, looking at the photos together and having a great time remembering our big day last month. Then he came across the ones with his little boy in them and became like a man possessed, trying to find ALL of the ones with SS in them. He was happy looking at our pictures, but 10 times happier seeing the ones of SS. I felt kinda shoved aside. How could I say anything without seeming jealous of a child?!
Well, in a surprising turn, my husband called biomom this morning after I called him at work and read him the blog from SD's site. He went out to his truck and called me back to call biomom and threatened her with lawsuit in regards to harassment and namecalling on SD's blogsite. She immediately buckled and will do anything to clear up the matter. SD was forced to apologize and is shutting down xanga site, and retracted entry on www.myspace.com.
So my husband and I normally get his kids every Thursday night and keep them over night and then take them to school, or back to where ever on Friday or keep them unitl she gets home. It has been this wasy for 4 years. So last night comes, my husband calls her 4 times, (4 on her cell, 4 at her home) no answer, we call the SS's cell phone, no answer, we call the biomom's parents, no answer. He left messages and still no call. So my question how do we get her in trouble.
I would like some advice on this one please. The biomom of our son does not pay her child support agreement to the court like the order states. Every now and then she pay my husband $50.00 (not very often). We just found out she is $17000.00 in the rears and there is a warrant for her arrest.
Well, I am still upset with the ongoing blog issue stuff going on with my estranged SD. She has made an entire additional post and is now blaming me that we moved away, she will never apologize to me, and wrote that I should basically f^^%$$ off and she wishes I were six feet under, but she would apologize to her Dad and forgive him, because she loves him. Then she wrote on her blog in big bold letters that I am an internet stalker and can be likened to a pedophile. She also says I should call her and talk to her, she is not afraid of me, or I should write her a letter.
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