Welcome to the StepTalk Blogs!
Create your own personal blog and start sharing what's on your mind. Blogs are your own personal space for venting, asking questions, sharing your experiences, posting your favorite recipes, discussing your favorite shows, etc. This is your space to use as you please. You can manage your own blog posts as well as control the commenting on them.
When posting blogs, remember to add meaningful tags to your posts in order to help others find your blog posts when searching. This also helps you find your blogs later. Tags are fully searchable and allow you to organize your blogs.
Start your blog now!
Recent Blog Posts
Well, I finally slept last all night for the first time in a long time. My BF's daughter left last night to go on vacation with her mother (she left her mom's house 3 weeks ago and cause all kinds of problems at our house, and now she is rewarded by going on vacation before she starts summer school). I did take it upon myself to call her mom and tell her everything that has transpired since she snuck out of the house. I just felt that her mother should know that she has shown no remorse whatsoever, has not had proper punishment for the crime and has caused extreme turmoil at both homes.
I had my appointment today with the attorney and my husband accompanied me. It was really odd, that this was the first time, that things were on the opposite foot, that I was the one with the problem with is ex. The attorney was quite nice, but there is really not much to be done, but fortunately for me, the ex, is not legally savvy, so I am hopeful she is dumb enough to fall for the letter. We took care of business and then stopped off for an ice cream before coming home. I supposed by the end of next week, the old witch will be flying on her broom, somewhere.
Hey everyone, quick question….my husband has to go back to court regarding the child support…long story short she went back to try to get an increase and after reviewing all of the information, they actually decreased the amount my husband has to pay…PISSED HER ALL THE WAY OFF!!! So she requested an administrative review of the amended (reduced) order….My question is…should I go to the hearing with him? I want to go to 1. be supportive b/c I know he’s having a hard time with all of this court stuff and 2.
So it has now been 11 days since we have seen the sk's. We are supposed to get them this evening but I really doubt it. This should make for a very interesting holiday. My husband was able to actually call and talk to his daughter. He told her have your brother call me back, that was yesterday at around 10:00 she told him he was still sleeping, but he never did call back. So we will see today if she will let us get them. I can't wait to see what she is going to pull. It still blows my mind that the ss has not called him, I say that because they are really close.
Why do the "second wives" always take the brunt of the anger from the X? After all, most of us met our DH after they were divorced or separated and had no intention of going back to their X's. Is it just that the X thinks that the divorce is temporary and we are poaching on their territory? Do they really think that their psychotic behavior makes them seem appealing to any man? My DH wouldn't touch his X with a 10 foot pole...yet, I am the target of her anger, especially after extended parenting time with the children.
Hi everyone I'm new to all of this. Thankfully a friend referred me before I lost it completely. Lately me and the youngest of 2 (11) have just been butting heads. It;s like I say brush your teeth and he wipes his butt. Then his mouth starts running, and I ground him, and he does annoying things all night like kick his feet on the floor so we can hear it all through the house, open the windows in his room to let all the air out, and so he can here the kids all playing outside,a nd see what he is missing, To make matters worse his father is out of town all this week.
to see if anyone has any thoughts on it, maybe I'm overreacting or too sensitive, I don't know. Biomom never buys SK's clothes and I mean never, if she does they're forbidden from bringing them or wearing them to our house, they turn up in all kinds of crap, my SS turns up in jeans so short he looks like an orphan and she passes them off to him as "playpants". Anyway, I take a pride in having both of them dressed well, one to encourage them to take a pride in their appearance and two, because I think it's a reflection on me i.e.
I'm not sure what I'm looking for. Wether just someone to listen or relate with... I am recently married with 3 step children. My husband's ex wife is nuts. She is so jealous of me it makes me sick to be around her. She is so competetive, hateful and vindictive. And it's all little things too. What do I do? I have come so close to telling her off or doing something physical...
I am new to this so please understand. I am twenty eight and engaged to a great guy...well at times. I have no children or my own but he has two. His daughter is 21 (yes he is 44) and his son is 15. He and his daughter really dont have a relationship. I have never met her but she knows of me and referes to me a the "little slut". I have met his son a couple of times (my fiance moved here to take a job)at family fuctions. He was extremely quiet at first and then when he began to speak it was clear that this wasnt going to be an easy relationship.
Hey everyone - sorry I haven't updated in a few weeks - I've been getting some work done around my house and of course the kids are no longer in school and I feel like tearing my hair out. Is it just me or does anyone else feel the same? Since the sk's have gotten out of school I feel like I'm going slowly insane, I have no quiet down time, no tidy house, multiple piles of laundry, 2 kids with ADHD constantly harassing me to entertain them - ahhhhhhhhhhhhh.
Pages
