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feeling a lot better...

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Thanks for everybody's input. Things are getting better now. My SDs spent the night at grandma/pa's house and when to the movies with them, which gave my husband and I some time to talk.

We went out to different stores yesterday to do some shopping and to avoid the crazy heat. The tempature here in WA was 104. I picked out a couple of little things for the SDs and you should see how surpise my husband was. Well, my older SD is wearing the same thing everyday(you would think $600 child support should be enough to buy some decent clothes) so I figured she could use some tanktops.
Also we all play UNO yesterday as a "happy family".(that's just a catch phrase the girls use)

Well you know I have nothing against these 2 little girls. I enjoy them a lot and they are nice kids. As long as their dad doesn't use the "I am going to spend more time with them because you do not want to share me" thing to attack me.... I need attention too even though he gets to see me EVERYDAY.

I work at a middle school and usuall am pretty busy. Right now it is summer vacation so I am mostly at home. This is the time of the year I get to hang out with my husband as long as I want until we are sick of each other. However summer is also the time the kids stay for 2 weeks every visit. I think I am greedy of my husband's attention like a little kid with her ice cream. Even though she can't possibly finish the whole thing by herself, she would rather eat until she pukes then sharing with anyone.

Okay, I'd better go make some food because we have some starving children here!!

By the way, talking with the mother-in-law helps most of the time, but I usually keep most of the feelings to myself. I was really upset the other day so I had to talk to her thinking that she would understand... Well, it didn't help this time..