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I can't stand it anymore.

triponloveb's picture

I'm tired of having my valuables broken by my 13 year old step son. He always seems to touch what I tell him not to. I'm tired of stepping in his pee when I go to the bathroom. I'm tired of eating my dinner in my bedroom because his eating with his mouth open makes me sick. He eats dinner in less then five minutes. I'm tired of watching him pick his nose and then wipe it on my couch. I'm tired of washing his poop stained underwear.

The darkness that lurks when I think about BM. (Post not for the faint of heart)

Susanna's picture

I know this sounds horrible but I have slowly started to come to the conclusion that the BM's really just got pregnant with my huband to turn him into her own personal version of welfare.

I used to be really sympathetic to single mom's on welfare and getting cp, but I'm really getting soured by these woman's behavior. My hb's first wife has never had a job a day in her life. Yes having three kids is a job, but her only son left is now 12 she could work while he's in school. Instead she just collects my husband's returement check and badmouths him all the while.

my conflicted mind part1

green stepmommy's picture

is it special to have a child with someone? i think that it must be, but i can't say so from experience. my husband has been dropping little hints lately, but i am to cofused to even consider anything like that. we have been a couple for 3 yrs now, married for 1. i love him and my stepson with all of my heart, but all of my jealousy issues with the ex wife have tainted everything. im not saying that i am not happy or would want to be out of this relationship, im just saying that he's already done this with somebody else.

Is it normal for a 8 year old boy to be so aggressive?

missangie1978's picture

My Fiancée's son is 8 years old and has been living with us for the past 2 1/2 months full-time. I never really noticed it before when we got him on just the weekends but having him everyday it's obvious that he's quite aggressive and I'm wondering if that's normal for an 8 year old boy or if it is because of lack of discipline?

How do you all do it???

rlj2007's picture

I have been reading all of your blogs daily for the last several weeks....this is my second blog. I just don't understand how you all manage to stay sane with the skids and the BM's. My BF and I are talking about getting married in July of this year. This would be both of our 2nd marriage. We also both have children, I have a 6 year old daughter from my previous marriage and he has a 5 year old son from a previous relationship (never married) and an 11 month old daughter from his previous marriage.

Close Encounters

smcpaw's picture

We have not seen my boyfriend's daughter since her mother chose to take her out of the school district we live in and allow her to continue to break the rules at our house which was about July of last year. The only time my boyfriend has had contact with his daughter was when he sent her flowers on her birthday (she called and thanked him) and again the day after Christmas. Other than that, they have not really had any contact. We have to attend a funeral tomorrow and both the exwife and the daughter will be there. You see, the exwife is still very close with his family...

This is small potatoes isn't it?

Bonus Wife's picture

Oldest sd (20) is in a correctional facility. She calls DH on our phone and mentions that she's waiting for "mom" to visit her but so far, no show. Dad reassures her "mom" will be there if she promised her that. Then, he decides to call "mom" using his cell, to find out where she is and if she is going. Turns out she's not going and relays message to SD. It's NOT a big deal and I kept it ZIPPED for a change as Fearless suggested to do in some instances...BUT...I want to know why my husband is getting in the middle of this???

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