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We have been contemplating whether or not we want to take on the challenge of going for a change in custody. In this process we have been focusing a lot of attention on getting documentation. Each time we see something our heads spin. BM has been lying much more than we even thought. She believes her lies and them stumbles when questioned about them. I told DH to stop hiding what records that he has because in my mind they are facts and she can't change facts. Well, BM took SD to a psychiatrist. (Dr.
OK I took some advice that I received here about answering the phone when BM calls to get her to strat calling less. Maybe today wasn't the day to start!
It's been a loooong time since I posted or visited this site. I think the last entries were last summer concerning my step-daughters wedding. All went well BTW.
Well...after 6 1/2 years.We broke up! So there hasn't been much to discuss or bitch about. No crazy X wife, no step kid issues...no guilty Dad syndrome. He moved out in November...and moved in with his daughter and her new husband and has been living there for almost 8 months now.
I'm good with it. No regrets. No bitterness. My son sees him on a regular basis still..there relationship remains intact.
This could turn into a long story, so beware! 
I'm just a little hurt, and although I know I'll get over it like I always do, I just want to share the situation and see what your perceptions are, how you would feel in my shoes, or maybe you are in the same situation and can commiserate with me!
Sometimes I just hate being a step mother!!! I have two sd, ages 12 and 18. I love them as if they were my own. We get along good most of the time. However, the mom resents me. She is remarried, but doesn't seem to think that the step dad is a step parent. Well, anyway, the 12yr old had to have two rods put in her back to correct severe scoliosis. She is in ICU, and at times, only parents can visit. We had a big fight with the hospital. All four of us wanted to visit her, but in twos. Since we were step parents, we were not allowed to see her.
I was wondering if a person can detach so much they end up losing feelings for their situation S/O permantely.
I have had many struggles with my FH and his oldest bioson. this boy is 18 with a 9th grade educ. smokes cigs and weed, drinks (not soda unless it is mixed with vodka) no job - now, FH has been living for the most part with me while maintaining a rental which BS lives and hangs with loser friends. by the way that house is TRASHED!
Well I have discovered that my ex and his wife are swingers. My youngest son was at his house and I went to pick him up to take him to camp and there was a banner laying there that the wife was making with a swingers logo on it. My kids are aware of this because I called my oldest sons girlfriend and asked her about it. She said yes, they both know. The youngest is 15 and the oldest is 19. She said that they found some pictures on the computer of the stepmother. In doing more research I found another website that they are affiliated with. The ex knows that I know about this.
And I'm getting anxiety just knowing the hours are ticking away until we will go pick up ss. Hopefully it will be a nice uneventful weekend, but that is such a rare thing these days. It seems every weekend that we have him, there is something. It's bad enough that ss is showing strong feelings of entitlement syndrome, and has been switching up the guilt game with Dh lately, witch kills Dh and then I have to spend the next few days after we drop SS off repairing Dh so he doesn't feel like a horrible father.
how do I get my post not to show the whole thing on the main page? I do not mean for that to happen. Sorry yall!
In last blog I posted about H dropping son off and child care his mom has him at when the 13 year is not watching him and I reported that it was a dump.
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