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ss9 and ss6 have recently been placed with dh and i since being removed from bm's care. together dh and i have dd3 and ds5 months. ss6 has add/adhd and is a handfull to say the least. he started daycare and school this past monday, since then dh has received 3 calls from daycare and school stating that ss6 has slapped a little girl, beat up a little boy, and at school was beating up a few kids and calling them names and cussing them out.
:jawdrop: SO never mentioned that BM wanted more children and SO refused. They had SS16 by "accident" and got married a year or so later. They were together until shortly before SO and I got together (I was not SO's first relationship post marriage, but close to it). SS was 10 when SO and I got together.
I've never had kids, and had tried. After a while of that, you just figure you can't. I left exH at 31 and didn't find myself in a stable long term committment again I got together with SO at the age of 36. And we were focused on SS, who was custodial with us.
Off the rails SD14 has broken her grounding again. She was supposed to be going on holiday today for 10 days with BM and family, now I have just been told by H that we are now having her for 10 days, or rather I am having her for 10 days as I am the one at home! Nightmare! Can feel stomach cramping with anxiety!
BM and H decided that SD9 (PEBT) would stay with us another month – I JUST GET INFORMED!
I didn't have to bake a single thing to get me through the day and my stomach stopped feeling like it's about to shoot out of my butt. That's progress, right?
I am so glad I found this site. I thought there was something horribly wrong with me until I spent an hour or so reading everyone's stories. Compared to a lot of people, I have it pretty easy! I guess I just have minor annoyances since our kids are still pretty young (mine 8, 7, and 3 and his 10 and but sometimes I just want to vent and whine for a little while. I have been living with my boyfriend and his kids for about a year now.
So I love my MIL she is really great. However I am finding out little by little that she is in contact with skids BM more then I origionally thought. I know that if BM drops the skids at my MIL house they will obviously say hello to each other but I am finding out that there have been occasions that my MIL has made a visit to BM house to give her something she had bought. Also the skids BM buys my MIL flowers for mothers day and has them sent to her house. I could see a gift from the skids. , but from my husbands ex wife? Is this how it is for others too?
Does anyone know where the saying came from? I'm thinking about using it for an upcoming book.
Growing up, I remember walking around the house naked till I was about 6-7 and I suddenly felt the urge to cover up, nobody told me to. I just decided on my own. My mom had no issues with me seeing her in her underwear at any age, and only seem to hide it from my brothers when they were 11+. You never heard "Go put some clothes on!" unless their was a good reason, such as: We had to go somewhere, someone was coming over, etc.
Is what DH just IMed me with.
Guess who just joined the ranks of the unemployed?
BM.
Her DH makes $75k/year, they have a $280k house, $20k in furniture on credit, and two car payments.
My heart started pounding - we are sooooo screwed. BM is going to look around and latch onto DH as income. *&^*%%&^%&*!!!!
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