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So, yesterday I posted about the IM I received from BM about the CS back in April. I haven't read through those messages since the day I received them until yesterday. I read through them again this morning, & I see such a range between what seem to be polite remarks & then some downright hateful remarks. The correspondence between us spanned over 2 days, I believe. I'm not sure if she's honestly trying to be kind & is just bad at it, or if she's being nice in a snide way. I know from my side, I make every effort to be fair.
Ok in a post yesterday I kind of came to the realization that indeed I am going to use my office for my oldest as his own bedroom soon.
Problem is this-he's been asking for his own room but not daily-more like every couple of weeks or so.
Wow did I start off this day on the wrong foot! First I overslept by an hour and a half. Then I left my lunch on the counter. I've been so good with what I'm eating - my lunch had three tiny meals, each one consisting of a good source of protein and a serving of fruit. I was so pissed when I realized I left it home that I yelled F!?K out loud while merging onto the freeway. LOL
So I was thinking today how unbalanced the CS system is.
BM gets a set ammt from DH every month. Court set, a warrant goes out for his arrest if he doesn't pay it.
Just a general question for those of you out there with boys and girls for (s)kids. SS3 and SD5 still take baths together. There have been a few times where we've left the room and come back to see them laying naked on top of each other in various ways (that are incredibly sexual) and giggling. I think that's totally inappropriate and we've told both of them that they should not be touching each other's privates in any way. I know this could be completely innocent, and probably just normal kid stuff but I'm starting to think that SD should start showering herself.
FDH and I met with a new atty last night...he is awesome! He represents fathers rights. He will be filing a contempt motion on BM and is also requesting a modifcation in CS. Which getting the modification in CS is going to be a win!!!
I am aware of social networking entries by BM complaining about being single. I thought I'd write a personal ad for her. What would your ad say? }:)
I just read an interesting article on a fave website of mine, www.thepsychoexwife.com and the BD that runs the site (an incredible man with a lot of great info and resources about ex's with BPD and Parental Alienation Syndrome) and I thought it was extremely helpful.
... everything starts to fall to crap. Loghead has been incredibly cranky the last 3 days. Sunday afternoon, he added a computer work station into Princess's bedroom, since she's away at college. he's pretty much been there every waking hour he is home since. Each night, I pretty much leave him alone, but I can hear the boys going in and out, bugging him. Both nights, I've gone in to tell him I was going to bed, and to give him a good night kiss, and he's bit my head off for interupting!
Having a big issue in my marriage that has haunted us for 2+ years. We are married eight years. This is my Second Marriage. First wife died at young age leaving me with two girls 11 & 16. Four years later I meet a wonderful soulmate and we marry.She has a BD.
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