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This has been a particularly trying week with SS13. This morning at breakfast, he proclaimed, "This isn't even a family. It's me and my dad, and you."
Tomorrow night won't come soon enough for me.
A year into dating my future husband, we were serious looking into getting married. But a phone call arrived and my FH was being told he needed to have a paternity test. Well to make a long story short, the child was his...a product of a one night stand. So here we are together, trying to support one another as our lives are turned upside down. I love him and told him that we should put off any engagement for a year. A year later, he decideds it is time to propose. Of course I said yes because I love him with every ounce of my heart.
the knock on the door tomorrow at 9AM when SS5 is dropped off.
dealing with SS5 Stepdad.
the 10 minutes it takes for SS5 to climb into car & put on seatbelt (& another 10 minutes to climb out.)
the eventual inevitable whine "Iiimmmmmm Huuuuunnnnnnggggggrrryyyyyyyyy......."
the crying that will start when SS5 cannot figure out how to turn on TV/change channel/etc.
BS9's reaction when he realizes it is a SS5 day.
BS9's frustration when SS5 insists on following him everywhere, every minute - even into the bathroom.
Date night itself went great, dinner and a movie and generally good all around. Except. I apparently have strep/ear infection/who-knows-what. I was bound and determined to go out--first time in a month! We'd been going out a couple times a week, so this has been a big change.
so i had my shower today and BM calls mother and law and asks if she can pick up SS and my DH picks up the phone and says no amd my MIL calls her back and says she can come so she shows up and ruines the whole thing makes a big scene of my DH yelling at her to leave and her yelling at SS to get in the car then MIL is like what she is my friend and the mother of my grandson "SO WHAT! this party is not yours to invite her too so i kicked BM and MIL out of my house and SS stayed man what a day
I work 3rd shift and get home around 5:15am at which point I watch a little TV and wind down before bed. This is also the only time I have to enjoy peace in my home when SD is here. This morning I got home and put on my jammies and started one of my shows online. At 5:30 SD5 walks into the livingroom. I told her it was too early for her to be up and to go back to bed and try to sleep. The little brat told me no and turned the TV on. I was livid.
I am so glad to find this site, I have been a step-mother for 8 years now, I am married to my first husband, he has 3 children from 2 other women prior to me, that we raise together and we have 3 biological children. Life in our household has been very difficult throughout the years and very rewarding as well. We live in a small town, so most know what goes on, I have always felt so alone in the way I feel and the many trials that I have had to go through as a step-parent. I work really hard at looking from all sides of a situation.
}:) Tonight when I am dressed as the COUNTESS, I will fly over to BM's house and bite her on the neck fully inviting her to the DARK SIDE where she prefers to live. Then I will scare her into continuing with mediation and cast a spell on her so that she releases the children to their father.....
She will awake shivering and terrified.....
Fully under my command
I was searching for an answer about what happens when a man needs to chose between his wife and adult children. I wanted to share with everyone. I saw a ray of hope for my marriage, and hope that I'll have good ending. This is what I found. The man was asking about what to do about his marriage.
http://forum.parent24.com/yaf_postst539p4_New-wife-ask-me-to-choose-betw...
So, I did the brave thing send DH packing to move into his SD's apartment. He did tried to contact twice (threating he is not going to pay for certain things). I have not respond. Not sure what's next. Need some advise.