Ss13 is on a trip to the capital, dh and him have been texting and talking. Now last night bm texted dh to tell him the 'news' about ss13 and what he is doing and said that if dh wanted to know what was going on that he can call her and she would be happy to tell him how ss13 trip is going. She implied that dh doesn't care what is going on with any of the boys b/c he doesn't call her or text her about how they are doing. Dh texted her back and said he doesn't need an update for her as he has been talking to ss13 himself.

hubby and i have been fightin every other weekend w step kid. 7 yr old. and i have 2 year old and baby on the way due this april.

i told him. i want 3 seperate beds. and he said you are retarded they are sisters. I said, i grew up sepereate my family does and yours when your mom is very poor. and cannot afford a bed.

The way DH and I have worked it is that instead of me and DH running around trying to get 400 different people presents for x-mas, he pretty much takes care of his side, and I pretty much take care of mine. He gets daughter, siblings, nieces and nephews, and father all something on his own. I get my mother's SO, my sister, cousin and cousin's two kids all something on my own. We usually both get a little something extra for each other's mother's as well as by ourselves. We just put both of our names on all of the presents.

ss17 is dating a 14 year old girl. i found online by searching that this is illegal. Do i tell Dh and hope he has a conversation with ss or do i just backoff and let him deal with everything concerning his kids?