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well i dont even no were to start! i have raised my step daughter from the age of 2yrs she is now 7 her mother never cared for the relationship that i have had wit her this lady is CRAZY!!! i have done everything in my power to get along with her one day she likes me the next she hates my guts and everything is all ways directed at me.
My SO's ex is quite the control freak. Precious Puddin' Poo (PPP or SD11) doesn't have to do chores and is not required to have boundaries at her father's home (he feels it will 'break her spirit') and he says that she is the equal of adults and treats her this way. She gets anything she wants (if she doesn't she has a 'meltdown' and/or sulks until she gets things her way). PPP will be visiting us at Xmas and my SO has to work part of that time. What you will find below this paragraph is part of the email 'instructing' us on what our behavior should be towards PPP during that time.
:jawdrop: I really don't know where to began. I'm the SM of SS11 and BM of two of my own. SS and BM is off the meat!
I've been through it all you name it...it happened.
I'm new here: After 4 1/2 years, I'm finally disengaging!
Update on Christmas present issues. So the BM and her BF are getting the three SD 18,15 and 13 netbooks for Christmas. They said that they were going to get the SS11 a XBox but now they have said that they ran out of money and they won't be able to get him very much at all! And I felt like crap for spending less on them myself! His own mother isn't even being fair.
SD went to BM's last week. She was telling BM about a project we did, and said she made it with "mom." Insane jealous BM flips out, and says to SD, "WHO ARE YOU CALLING MOM?!" SD burst into tears and says "sometimes I call Marla stepmom." (true) BM calls DH to demand why SD calls me mom. DH tells her SD has NEVER called me mom, except by accident, and I never told SD to call me mom.
The last time that BM dragged DH to court, they both seperately met with these family law advisors. DH told me that BM told the advisors that I was "the reason for breakdown in communication between her and DH and she feels she cannot contact him when she should." I am the reason for the "breakdown in communication"?! How about you ARE NOT together anymore? How about that? Okay, yeah I'll play, yes I am the reason for the "breakdown of indecent communication" - damn right! No, I am not okay with BM texting/calling DH about how she "wants to be a family".
I've been with my bf for 2 and a half years now. We live together in a small apartment along with his 6 year old son. My bf is Full time dad with the BM in the picture very seldom. Over the years I've gown to love his son as family but I'm starting to wonder if I like him and can actually see myself spending my life as his step mother. He is a very bad and disturbed child, which I know is not his fault. Although his father has tried to provide for him his upbringing thus far has been very unstable. He screams at the top of his lungs constantly and he can not listen to save his life.
Just a quick poll...would you send a friend rqst to your serious bf's dad?
My bf does not like computers at all-doesn't even have a FB-not interested (works for me believe me lol).
His dad mentioned he was on FB the other day-we get along great and there's certainly nothing to hide on my page (well I have a lot of exbf's that post stuff on my wall-mainly political arguments ha!)
The way my future FIL is though he might feel to shy to send me a friend rqst-...so would you?