BM tried all week to pawn the kids off on us. Usually we would take them but she waited until the last minute (as usual) and we already had plans. I was so glad when BF told her that we would not keep the boys over night Saturday (Yesterday) because I hate this last minute crap of hers. We told her that we would take them trick or treating for a few hours at BF's family.

I'm not understanding the different custody agreements for SS... We want him every other week Friday to Friday. We want joint custody. We want to have just as much legal right to him and decisions for him as BM. So pretty much DH wants everything 50/50. Is this joint legal custody or physical? What's the difference? We are going to pay child support regardless. DH wants to be able to be involved in SS school and not have BM have more control over SS than him. Any help is greatly appreciated. Thank you.

OMG now fiance is pissed at me because he says i dont buy enough groceries for his two sons, one is 21 works, gets food stamps and never spends them and the other will be 18 in jan and is lazy and lives with us and his mother gets food stamps for him and he gets some microwave shit with some of them and I buy the food here and the moron 18 yr old stands at the cupboard and rolls up the sandwich meat and eats the whole pound at once. AND, I AM THE BAD GUY. I always get yelled at if I bring up anything at all about anything in this house.

FINALLY!!!! I finally have good news... I finally have an attorney that will wipe the floor with this BITCH. I have Finally found an attorney that is fighting for my BDH... and now this bitch is going to pay the consequences for her actions when it comes to refusing to get a job. For refusing to allow visitations... for everything. FINALLY....

I can not wait to see the look on her face when she finally realizes that I am not the enemy... But I am going into MOMMA BEAR mode...