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I probably shouldn't be dancing....

shielded2009's picture

BUT...I am...*shrugs*

So DH got a certified letter in the mail from BM...I actually signed for it to be a bish...(something that I RARELY do...I'm so unplugged...but I was feeling a bit saucy). I made a point to sign it Mrs. Shielded...I wanted her to see my full married name (something she already knows...)...so as to piss her off...Kinda the, "He married ME...not you bish"...

BM always told her friends that DH wasn't the marrying type, he was a playboy, etc...etc...etc...NO he's not...He just didn't want to marry YOU...

Anyway...That was the first...

So DH opened the letter, and she was informing him of her holiday coming up...Thanksgiving...Okay....so what...that's written in the CO...It's her year for Thanksgiving...

BUT...her dates were all wrong and jacked up...She wrote "Per the court order, Thanksgiving weekend will be spend with me...The custodial parent. November 28, 29, 30"

Brain dead woman...

First off...November 28, 29, and 30 are a MONDAY, TUESDAY AND WEDNESDAY after Thanksgiving...We think she was looking at an October calendar and not November...

Also, the CO CLEARLY states that the parent that has the child on Thanksgiving, their holiday starts the evening before the holiday at 6pm, and ends the day OF the holiday at 8 pm...

Which is fine as DH doesn't have her that day anyway...BUT DH does have her that Friday through Sunday as his regular visitation...

She's trying to pull something to be able to keep SD the entire Thanksgiving weekend so she can go out of town...

Now, DH is pissed off because he said she's going to keep her on his weekend. He's going to send her a certified letter pointing out the flaws in her dates, send her another copy of the court order...etc...etc...though it's not going to do any good...They've been to court 17 times, and the judge is not going to let him take her to court over "just" this...

He said he's going to document it and keep it moving...He's pretty pissed...

Me??? NOT SO MUCH...I could care less...I'm chanting "keep her! keep her! keep her!!!"

I know I'm wrong...but...eh...A drama free...DRAMA FREE holiday without the SKID?! Woo-hoo!

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alwaysanxious's picture

Nothing wrong with that. I'd love a holiday without the skids again. I remember the days...

shielded2009's picture

Ugh...I can't imagine how great having a glass of wine will be because I'm ENJOYING it not because I'm getting drunk to escape, lol...

briarmommy's picture

I can understand the dancing, I unfortinatly have SS on Thanksgiving this year(and the whole weekend after) which also means having MIL over, blech. But its cool I'm exited because SS is with his mom on Christmas and we don't get him until the next day so are planning a fun filled christmas eve and christmas with our daughter and then a small dinner to have with SS and MIl the next day when he opens his presents. (Don't flame me people SS is having a Christmas day with BM so why does he automatically get two big Christmas, he will have presents and a dinner but smaller and without the other fanfare)

shielded2009's picture

Ugh! I'm soooo jealous!

I have the reverse this year and I'm a little pissed...no...a lot pissed

My family is going to be coming to stay with us for Christmas, and we have SD from Christmas eve until New Years eve...and I'm SICK over it...

My family will be coming from Florida and California to spend the holiday with us...This is the FIRST time all of us will be together for Christmas in YEARS...

It's going to be strange because I KNOW MIL will be trying to insert herself, and I'm already pissed off at her, so that's going to be problem #1...

DS will be 2 by that time, so this will be his first real Christmas, and I know my family will spoil him...He's already been getting gifts from my best friends that I've put away...

SD will not be so fortunate...(well if you put what she gets here along with what she gets at her mom's probably...dunno...)I know MIL will not do much of crap, but will complain about what everybody isn't doing...

and the icing on the cake? DH will probably have to work one or two of the days after Christmas, and SD will have to go to some sitter or day care or something...She can not stay with us...AND she can't go to work with DH as they kicked her out and told him not to bring her back (they have a child friendly work environment)...

Ugh...freaking UGH!

bugsmom's picture

The whole co and certified's sound just like my ex. He is such a douche that he rarely gets things correct and then he will show up here on days he is not to get him and then go "oh, I didn't know" give me a break you are playing games. This just goes to show its on both sides of the fence.
Side note sounds like you may be in Utah because this is exactly how mine goes. And I got my divorce in 2002, after a certain year they changed.
Glad you get a break and there will never be anything with gloating and dancing in my book when you are brat free Biggrin
ENJOY!

Shaman29's picture

SIGH......it's our year with DH's kid. Who will spend the majority of the time holed up in her room, stinking the place up with her cheap perfume and generally making a mess. SIGH.