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Here we go again!!!

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My DH has soooo been trying to be the nice guy...

He's taking BM to court for changing his visitation...AGAIN...

It's so crazy...

This time LAST YEAR they went to court for the SAME DANG THING!!! She STILL DOESN'T GET IT!!!

So...For some reason this loopy broad has a hard time understanding that DH gets SD EVERY OTHER WEEKEND AND EVERY OTHER THURSDAY...

So whenever there's a holiday or something that might conflict with the aforementioned, she starts the clock back over...

The CO AND the judge have told her that the every other weekend, and every other Thursday DOES NOT CHANGE...It does not change!!! Holidays that conflict, just conflict...Sometimes somebody might gain a day or so, or they might lose a day or so, but the original schedule doesn't just change...

So they rotate holidays except for Mother's and Father's day.

So for Thanksgiving, BM had SD, and in turn, we had her for Christmas...

The CO specifically says that for who's ever turn it is to have the holiday (Thanksgiving for example) they get them the evening before the holiday at 6pm until 6pm the day of the holiday...Fine...This Thanksgiving was DH's weekend to have SD...That should be a no brainer as his regular visitation fell on the day after Thanksgiving...BM told him that the CO says that she gets her the whole weekend...It TRULY doesn't...

So she kept SD and DH didn't see SD on his regularly scheduled visitation...

So for Christmas, his visitation is from the day before the holiday (Christmas eve which was a Saturday) until New Years eve at 6pm...His regularly scheduled weekend fell on that FRIDAY at 6pm. BM told DH that his Christmas break with SD didn't start until Saturday...DH reminded her that it's ALSO his regular visitation...

DH didn't get SD until Saturday...

So DH's Christmas visitation was over a week's time. It covered part of BM weekend...Oh well per the court order AND the judge...That was last weekend...

So sense would tell you that THIS weekend is DH, right? She said since DH was with her the weekend before and the weekend before that (because of the Christmas visitation), it's her turn...

HERE WE GO AGAIN!!! I'm really trying to not think this woman is mentally retarded ON TOP of being mean and evil...

But I swear they JUST went to court for this EXACT thing LAST YEAR!!!! Exact!!!

The judge being tired of her told her he was going to put her ass in jail for withholding SD...

At the time she had a case pending in criminal court for attacking DH in which she went to jail, so DH couldn't bring that up yet...But now that she's been convicted and is on probation, he can...

She's impossible to deal with...

The court order says that he has to send her certified letters for communicating when he wanted his summer visitations...She will NOT accept his certified letters...They all come back that they were never picked up...

So he's taking her back to court AGAIN to deal with this, deal with the fact that she doesn't accept his certified letters and can't communicate with her, let the judge know that she refuses to provide him with her new address, and that he can't communicate with her as she's violent and has attacked him (with proof)...

I'm soooooooo tired of this...Why can't folk's be NORMAL?!

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I'll find out about a 3rd party agency delivering it...

Didn't think about that...Thanks!

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DH has tried giving her calendar...Even the one the judge used...she refuses to take anything or hear anything that DH comes up with...

She doesn't acknowledge his emails either...We can't even swap weekends with her because the last time DH allowed it, she called the police on him (even after they had a series of text messages to clarify) to say he "stole" SD...She was just trying to build a case that DH doesn't follow the CO and that he doesn't get SD...which he does...religiously...Once she had all of her "proof" with the aforementioned lies, etc...she took him to court...The judge saw through was she was trying to do and dismissed everything...that's when she walked out of the court room and proceeded to attack DH in front of several police officers...

She's obviously not wrapped too tight...

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You can say that, again...

The judge actually told her that...

The CO is for the non-custodial parent (DH), and he goes by it...She uses it to benefit her when she wants to and turns it to apply for her...

for instance...The CO specifically says that the NON-custodial parent gets two 2 week non interrupted visitation from SD in the summer. She took it upon herself to apply that to herself, and kept SD away from DH in the summer for a total of 5 weeks...don't know HOW she did that math but she referenced the CO...

The judge had to tell her that non-custodial wasn't HER...She argued with the judge that she should get non-interrupted time as well...The judge told her that she has the majority of the time with SD, so that's time enough...