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amber3902's post got me boiling and stirred up some feelings. I am white Canadian but I was raised in west Virginia so I have an accent and I'm just your typical blonde haired blue eyed petite (still have a little baby weight) country girl. DH is mixed African American and white. His father is African American and he swears my baby is not DH's because he has blonde hair. We did a paternity test but still DH's family looks at me sideways and will love all over the stepkids but will not even hold or say hi to baby. It really does hurt me.
Haven't been on here in a while. Just haven't felt up to it lately, especially after our last trip to NJ.
The bullet-point version of the story:
*SD told SO that she hates me
*SD also told SO that she wishes things were like they were before he met me. No, she doesn't want GUBM and SO to get back together, but, she wishes that SO wasn't dating anyone and that she had him all to herself like it used to be.
I have a hobby I repurpose old stuff the rustier the better. I take old beds and make benches and doors and stuff. Well, my SD sent my DH a pic. yesterday of something I don't know what it was, but she posted along with it "My first attempt at repurposing, what do ya think?" The bitch is trying to copy my hobby, what the F. What is it with these SD's do they want to sleep with their Dad's or what? I don't get it, is she so jealous of me that she thinks the more like me she becomes the more attention she will get from her Dad? Shaking my head....
My husband had split from the ex before I came along although they still lived together. As soon as she found out about me the s@@t hit the fan and its been trouble. Been together 5 years, been married for 3. His kids are 9 and 7 and we get on great. He is still round her place two if not 3 evenings a week from school kick out up to like 9:00pm and its driving me insane. They are not allowed to stay, and she makes sure to cause as many problems as she can. Financially it's a huge drain, I am mostly kept as far away for. Them as she can make it.
do you have experience with theses... switching from one to the other, weight gain or loss, using with bp and cholesterol needs, ambien. ...
I feel like I'm taking a pharmacy worth of pills everyday and I was completely fine a few years ago.
ever just stop taking scripting to rest yourself?
My s/o is a seasonal worker and this is his busiest time of year so I don't spend a whole lot of time with him until the weekend. He is also very a.d.d. and he can't sit still for anything and always has to be busy. Combining these two things makes it very difficult at times to spend any quality time together. Anyways, he made a comment one night about how he could get these tickets for a concert, but he didn't know if he really wanted to go or spend the money and all that, because honestly he is kinda cheap.
Please ignore the fact some of this is whiskey fueled. My exfil's celebration of life was today. Yes it was suggested I not attend. However I miss the ever loving crap out of that family and they are a great bunch of amazing, talented, loving, and intelligent people (something got missed passing that to exh but I digress) ExSMil asked if I would please come she missed me and knew I was likely to be of the most help and level headed, so I went, early to help set up. Make sure food was where it was supposed to be and hot or cold depending on what it was supposed to be.
He said, these are really good enchiladas. Wow. Wonder if SO had a talk with him.
Normally I get nothing, or he'd turn his nose up at it, and a while back I decided to disengage from cooking for him.
Need to mark this down in the history books.
Heard high pitched giggling in the living room, thought it sounded like a girl, realized, oh, that's just SS with his headphones on laughing at his videos...with no prospects of getting a girlfriend as long as he keeps giggling like a girl.
What...a...big...dork.
FDH picks up SD7 this morning from GGBM where he is told that SD still has some homework to get finished so could he bring her back to GGBM on Sunday afternoon instead of bringing her to school on Monday morning. She will not give him the homework, and SD has been sent in yet another dress with no shorts, and no backpack, again. (BM has been doing this since halfway through the school year with the backpack)
FDH starts txting BM1:
FDH: How am I supposed to help her with her homework if I don't ever have her school stuff??
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