My husband had split from the ex before I came along although they still lived together. As soon as she found out about me the s@@t hit the fan and its been trouble. Been together 5 years, been married for 3. His kids are 9 and 7 and we get on great. He is still round her place two if not 3 evenings a week from school kick out up to like 9:00pm and its driving me insane. They are not allowed to stay, and she makes sure to cause as many problems as she can. Financially it's a huge drain, I am mostly kept as far away for. Them as she can make it.