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BM has bed bugs and wants SS10 to stay an extra week

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Submitted by newbiestepmom25 on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 12:22pm

Gosh what a mess. Ok so BM2 has bed bugs again. the last time she had bed bugs DH paid to get her mobile home heated re-carpeted and refurnished and to get all of her and SS10's clothes dry cleaned and sealed. All of that came out of our pockets which is the first annoying thing but we had to so that SS10 could have a place to sleep because they live in another state. So now the bed bugs have returned. SS10 was suppose to catch a plane home on Friday. But BM says he can't go home because of the bed bugs.

Finally admitting the painfully obvious out loud...

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Submitted by pixiedust10 on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 11:37am

FDH and I had a pretty heated discussion last week. I contemplate going to stay with my folks, basically let the house and all of the debt go, and put my life back together for myself and the Bios. The stress over these last two years has been so heavy and I'm so drained. So he says he just has to believe in his heart that things will not always be like this and he has to believe we will be able to have our wedding and start our life...which at this point is just a nice thought. I finally said the one thing I never had:

Just called BM Kraken to DH

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Submitted by HappyCow on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 11:12am

Oops. After reading over the favorite names and sayings on this site I answered a call from DH asking if I was ok with SD15 coming over again this weekend. I blurted out "I guess the Kraken doesn't need a babysitter for this weekend". Lucky for me then DH started with "Release the Kraken!!" and we giggled.

Thankful that we both have a good sense of humor!

Top Ten Ways to annoy a BM...

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Submitted by princessmofo on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 11:10am

1. DH exists.

2. We (stepmoms) exist.

3. The legal system does not revolve around her.

4. The world does not revolve around her.

5. "Her" child has fun, any kind of fun without her.

6. Do not engage her, or communicate with her on "her" terms.

7. Stick to the CO.

8. Take a vacation with your wife and family...ever.

9. Buy something, anything with your wife(house, furniture, car, pet), without BM's consent or consultation.

10. Procreate with "her" husband (obviously her ex-husband but some CAN'T seem to let go).

Ever feel like "evil SM" when you would have done the same to bio kids?

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Submitted by overwhelmed_4 on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 9:02am

There are a few examples, but today was just a small one. The kids all woke me up at 8 and of course were wanting breakfast right away. I am the type of person who takes about thirty minutes to fully wake up tho. I told the kids I would make breakfast if they wanted but to just wait a few minutes. SS6 and SD5 decided they just couldn't wait until 8:30 so they started making eggo waffles. I asked them if they were sure because I wasn't going to give them two breakfasts. BS6 also told SS that he probably shouldn't eat now because a home made breakfast would be better.

To go or not to go?

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Submitted by Jenny79 on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 7:05am

Today DH took his 2 daughters age 12 and 10 on vacation for the week... And he would like for me and my dughter to join them. I am not sure I want to, friday night a huge fight broke out, he called me by the name of his XW and blame me for all his problems. The day after we talked, told him he has anger issues, drinking issues and that he needs to make peace with his past... He promised to get help if I spend a few days with him and his, bratty, spoiled fithy little white trash daughters...

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