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Hey guys. Hope you all are managing laterly. Ok, I've not been on here because, I've been blissfully happy because SD now 9 has been visiting dad's mom, and her mom during the summer. Although we wanted her to spend the time with her mom, her mom wasn't able to see her the WHOLE summer until the last two weeks of the summer -- when we were going to have her. WTF! You can't make time to see your child? Whatever...
I know I'm fairly new to this site but I really need to vent tonight...
My husband and I just had a HUGE fight over the same problem that we have fought over for the past 3 years of our relationship. He will "set boundaries" with BM and then go back and do the opposite because it's "for the kids". I am so tired of hearing, "for the kids" that I could just puke. The details aren't super important but I was wondering does anyone else have any suggestions on how to deal with going back on boundaries?
Well after my post ranting about being unhappy I finally had the talk with my husband yesterday. I told him I wanted a divorce because I was making us both miserable. He wasn't happy about it of course but didn't show too much. Then he got really upset and sad... I laid with him and told him that I was sorry. But I knew that wasn't good enough.
So. last night after a long and boring day at work I go home. My dh is talking to me and tells me that my sd9 stated that her mother stated "Mally only buys you toys to keep you there" SO WHAT HOE BAG. I am so furious she better not call in the next couple days cause I just might say somethings to her that are not for childrens ears, AND if she said that what else did she say to them like the fact that SS6 has been distant which is very UNLIKE him. I'll jedi mind trick her.
I know we have talked about this topic before on here, about a BM finding the SM here on ST, and reading posts to spy. Well that may be the case for me, so I just keep changing the name on my account, but I wonder why BM would waste that kind of time anyways, we never see eachother anymore, or have to speak or deal with eachother, but it seems that she is still interested in what we/ I are doing.
But WAIT... did I hear that right? BM is too busy to go???? Are you friggen kidding me?
I am not going to be victim to my stepdaughter and her shenanigans anymore,I am done. I will be civil to her if she comes around but I am done. Wanting her to love me and resolve our issues that are really her issues by texting and leaving voice mails to her with no response, is only draggin me down and not making me a good parent,wife,and worker and she ain't worth all that. I was letting her drag me down emotionally with her alienation. Shit on her, I know I am a good person and have been simply great to her from day one. My husband knows all this and he thinks she is being ridiculous.
Hi. I'm a 38 year old single female. I have recently met a 38 year old single male with a 9 year old daughter from a previous relationship. When is it appropriate to meet the 9 year old? We have been seeing each other for about a month and 1/2.
How is it that BM can be so crazy and bitter that she would try to convence herself that FH has no custody of SD3? In fact, FH has shared both physical and legal custody yet she just says that SD visits. Why is it so hard for her to admit that she is not this perfect mom? I swear this women is crazy! So new drama now lol of course! Now she is saying that FH and I tell SD bad things about her and he boy friend. She believes that because SD hates living with them. She never wants to see her mom, she even tells the day care lady to take her to Daddy.
I haven't met not talked to BM in person so if I meet her, I'd say:
"Oh, you DO look old!"
She is 13 years older than I am.
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