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I am having some major issues here. A little background info: My daughter began visitations EOW with her dad when he got out of prison in April. Everything has begun to transition with her being okay over there on his weekend visits without her freaking out and wanting to come home. However, I feel like he stepped out of prison, right onto a high horse.
1. He doesn't think she is clean enough when she comes home from school (on his fridays that he picks her up).
~she is a 4 year old kid at daycare - why would she come home sparkling clean...???
The stepsons came over for a visit after football practice yesterday.
I was in the kitchen washing dishes and my back awas turned. The boys came in and walked right past me (they saw me!) and didn't say one word!
They plop down in the living room and greet their father. As I was finishing up the dishes I had already decided that I wasn't gonna stick around for this family moment. I go into the living room and grab my pocketbook from the table.
DH says to his precious boys "Did you guys say Hi to Stuknaz?" They both said "Yeah" simulataneoulsy!
Well, DH and were I having nice supper preparations, getting ready to grill dinner tonight, then SD14 calls, WHERE ARE MY DRILLTEAM SHOES?!!!! VERGE OF TEARS, FULL PANIC MODE!!!
Guess What?! NOT HERE!!! I keep this house clean, organized, laundry done (yes, even when we have SKIDS FOR A MONTH), The shoes are NOT HERE! I Go Under All Beds On Phone With SD14, No Shoes. She doesn't believe me, has to call Daddy and have him put brakes on our supper, come get her and look for herself.
Okay, I was stalking. I googled the Wookie's name. This site came up: http://www.isthisyour.name/ So, I'm looking through it, and I notice that the Sasquatch is her power animal. That's what DH and I call her privately. I call her the Wookie on here because Sasquatch was already taken as a BM name. I guess you gotta see it to get it.
Another weekend with the kids this weekend. 2 weekends ago when we had them it was a cryfest all night long because they 'missed mommy.' Like I said in my last blog post.. this crying thing is new... we've had the kids every other weekend at my place since the BF moved in back in July. This crying and waking up at 2am to call BM thing is new.
Last time she blamed it on me!
This is my first blog ever, so that being said I'm obviously frustrated. Sorry for the length
I have 2 boys of my own 16 & 5. The 16 yr old is with me ft the 5 is 1/2. My boyfriend has 2 a 17 yr old boy and a 15 yr old girl who live out of state with the BM.
So DH/BM & Guardian are at this meeting - BM sits down and says she agrees to our original proposal for custody which consists of:
SS every weekend
All holidays
all summer
full or joint custody
NO CHILD SUPPORT
DH picks up
BM picks up from our house on Sundays
Everyone at the table was shocked that BM is agreeing to anything, but DH calmly says- Oh believe me, as soon as this proposal is to be court ordered, BM will decide against everything.
Thanks for the encouraging words of those who actually read my long rant yesterday 
We had SD's confirmation meeting last night at our church (BM and her hubby came for info though they aren't members). DH was hanging out with the kids (SD,SS and BD) so I went over to the table to pick up SD's catechism, folder etc since the skids are with us for the first 4 Wednesdays when SD has her meetings (DH and BM have 50/50 placement). I head back by DH and the kids and just start paging through the papers and I look up to see BM and her husband headed directly over to us.
When I was picking up the skids yesterday from MIL's house where they go after school, BM drove up behind me. She said tell FH that in the next couple of days I'm going to be taking SD10 to get start the Gardasil vaccine. She said, "She's old enough to get it now and since it runs in both sides of the family I think it's a good idea."
Uh, what part of FH having sole custody does she not get? Obviously, she doesn't get the part about him having the end all, be all say on skids receiving ANY medical services.
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