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does he care?????

asia's picture

Did anyone ever get the feeling that... when you and bf have a child that he wont love your child the same way as he love his first child? cause sometimes my bf make me feel like that... i dont know if he even realize that... everytime when he talks about his son he makes comments as .... "if i hit a milion dollar i would split it to my family and my son,by the age of 18 he will be set".. and i'm sitting there thinking to myself"wtf" lol.... what if i had a child with him.. would he even care that much...ugh..

bm doesn't respect me

bendetti21's picture

so I am still a girlfriend about to be a SM. and the BM doesn't understand she need to respect me. i respect her as her daufhter's mother, but as a person she is stupid and most of the time as a mom shes the same. but she doesn't think i have a say. my Fiance ,the BF, keeps telling her to respect me as part of the kids life. but she thinks my opinions and decisions do not matter. i don't know how to get this through her head. in her house her new husband doesn't want any part of his SD life. But in our house, i do. I have complete say as if i was her mom.

just venting.......

asia's picture

i have to say kids say the darnest thing!! my ss is 3yr. we were in the store shopping and the bm called to talk to him like she usally does when we have him. anyways i guess she ask him what he is doing and if he ate..... and he said yes asia cook..i'm with asia walking we going shopping... then he said i dont want to talk to you i'm going shopping with asia... so i know the bm felt some type of way... then she call my husband thinking accusing someone telling him to say that to her... but noone did// he was on the phone with her himself...

Crazy BM is trying to stop me from picking up SD from school

Rainbow.Bright's picture

We found out today that BM took my name off SD's school pickup list. So what is her reason for taking my name off? "I don't know her. She's not picking up my child." You don't want to know me you idiot and you have made it perfectly clear for 5.5 years! We have 50% custody so what we do is not your business hooker!

Stepdaughter!!!

Smile-n-Cry's picture

My husband and I didn't want my sd to get a cell phone yet but she kept bugging her grandmother for one without our knowledge and the grandmother got her one about 8 months ago. We didn't like it but surrendered to it since she had already gotten it for her and because my sd is in athletics and has to go after school to her games, it was convienent for us that she had a way to get a hold of her when she was out.

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