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What should I do???!!!!

vgill's picture

What do you do with a mouthy 14 year old SS who Skips school to go have unprotected sex with his 14 year old girlfriend!!!????? I know what I feel like doing but what is the right thing to do. He currently lives with Bm and has for the last 10 months for the first time since he was 3 and his behavior has consistantly gone down hill. He is so disrespectful and argumentitive and quite hateful, Bm doesn't help she gives into him because she doesn't want to fight with him and DH does the samething sometimes.. I have never met a kid that liked to fight soo much.

Damn Bm Had it with the bitch... Sorry Strong language...

cantmissamy's picture

Ok today was the last day I have had it with the damn bm as far as my ss goes. We have had non bio daughter of my fdh for the weekend and the damn bitch only called to check on non bio of fdh.. Wtf... What about her own bio son who is my fss... I am to the point of calling it quits with the whole damn thing as far as everything is concerned.. I know I posted positive notes about fss but enough is enough and I am not sure how much more I can take here. Damn fdh treats non bio daughter as she is his own and fuck this. I can not take it..

I need to learn to keep my mouth shut

secondwife20's picture

So I already set up my Christmas tree, and we bring Blabb home today. She stares at it and asks, "Does it light up?"

I can't help but look at her with the "are-you-serious?" expression on my face. The tree is covered with lights. So I say, "No... we just have the lights there because it fills up space."

OT - Favorite Christmas Movies

Stick's picture

I LOVE the movie ELF. And I also love the movie ARSENIC AND OLD LACE. It's actually a Halloween movie, but when I was little, they always showed it at Christmas time!!

Ohh and all the cartoons - Rudolph, ... the one with Heatmeiser and Mr. Freeze... Peanuts!!

I love Christmas!

Anyway... just a lighthearted blog... What are your favorite Christmas movies?

Not looking forward to this weekend

Storm76's picture

SS10 is with us this weekend (he didn't end up staying in hospital long this week in the end) and I'm racking my brain trying to figure out what we're going to do with him in a small flat for two days as the weather is absolutely dreadful (lashing rain & gale force winds).

So far, I've come up with making Christmas cards, perhaps doing some baking & playing on the Wii together.

Any bright ideas out there people?

Today would have been my due date.

TheBrightSide's picture

Today would have been my due date. I miscarried twice this year, and today would have been the due date of my first pregnancy.

DH doesn't know what today is. Nobody does.

DH's reaction to the two miscarriages this year, has been detached. He just doesn't know how to support me without getting defensive when I get sad and tell me that I resent him for not wanting to adopt. Sooo....its times like this when I feel really, really alone.

So, my Step friends.....I just want someone in this world to help me acknowledge this day.

Fiance's 35 year old daughter (adopted) causing me grief.

Carmella's picture

With the holday's now I will be seing more of his daughter. She(Tara) has three children, ages 11,14, and 16. Let me begin with: I've known my fiance' for 7 years and we are getting married in January. We are great parents. I have two children of my own that I am very proud of. My daughter is 25 and my son is 16. They are very responsible upstanding children.

Cry Wolf

TheRealMom's picture

My youngest step-daugther (9 years old) has also been displaying some really disturbing behavior. Any time that she is upset, if I touch her in any way or even brush past her - she starts crying and saying that I hurt her.

Rotten behavior ruining holiday

TheRealMom's picture

She's at it again (9 year old SD). We have family over for the holidays. Usually when other people come to visit that she hasn't seen in awhile, she doesn't act as rude towards me. But today she has proved me wrong. I ask her to help clean the house and she argues with me the whole time. I am standing their talking to my sister-in-law that just got here from LA, and my SD walks up to me and says excuse me in a sassy manner. When I step aside, she walks up to me again as says it again! Right in front of our company.

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