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This is something that I really need advice on... I am having a hard time dealing with SD Full Time! I am not saying I hate her or don't want her there; but it is as if I can't find how I fit in the equation and I am gettin depressed. I feel as if I exert a lot of time and energy with my SD; When she talks it is always directed towards Dad ~ Dad this and Dad that.
Counseling was a good idea. I'm glad you encouraged me to go.
Both of my Skids have moved in with their BM !!!!!! I am just soo happy and excited,they have lived with Dh and I since they were little kids and I am soo happy they are not here!! Not only that but it may actually be good for them, in their minds BM could do no wrong, after living with her for a while they will actually get to see why she never had custody, plus her father is dieing and has 6 months left so I think it will be good for the boys to spend as much time with him as possible before he goes.
:jawdrop: I think she was in there at least 5 min. He thought it was funny that she was panting like a dog. He said she was dirty so he put her in there to get her clean. I feel so horrible, I wanna cry. I'm afraid she's gonna have brain damage or something. How do I make sure my 3yo gets the seriousness of this? I sent him to his room and he was not allowed out the rest of the night. Dh and I both talked to him. OMG!!! I hope she's okay...
I casually mentioned to Loghead that the two boys had dirtied SEVEN towels before school this morning, and that was a ridiculous. Then later, I asked him to have PITA wash his laundry tonight, since Tuesday is "his" laundry day.
The minute the boys walked in the door, he was all over their behinds! "Take out the trash!" "Start your laundry!" "Why are there food dishes in your bedroom?"
This one cracked me up- "You get one towel a day, or they're going to go away! You'll have to lick yourself clean, like the cat, if you keep using so many towels!"
I posted a blog yesterday as i left my husband and was miserable but today i feel a little better and some of my anger and hurt is starting to lift. I still feel like i want my husband back but i also feel like i am strong enough to make some rules.
}:) My DH is driving me crazy, this skds don't bother me as much as the DH. DH is self medicating with Alcohol and it just keeps getting worse he lectures and lectures he is self rightous in all of his glory. I have a headache and I am sick and he won't just relax he has always got to be up in other people's business.. I think I need to go to alanon. Thanks for letting me vent... There I said it now I can try to return to him with a delightful smile....
So. Every time my bios get in a fight, DH has no problem whatsoever telling them to knock it off and taking away whatever they were fighting over. The end. But if it's HIS kids, he thinks it's a much better idea to sit them down for like half an hour and discuss what led up to the fight, what feelings are involved, why the fight happened, what can be done to avoid the situation next time, ad nauseum.
My fiance and I have been happily together for 2 years. We moved in together very soon after we started dating. We were living like newlyweds for a year and then his (then 19 y/o) daughter moved in. I was excited in the fact that she and I could develop a relationship, sad in the fact that we were no longer alone (just being honest). She has been living with us since March of this year (6 months). I welcomed her, invited her to have luncheons when Dad was at work, hung out with her and really tried to bond as a friend.
MIL came to our house last week and spent a night, as she was driving through town after visiting my brother in law and his kids. I was really shocked that she was even going to come over, because since I've lived there (2 years) she has not even come inside the house. We get along great, she's just always gotten a hotel when she's come to town and had us bring the kids there.