We have been living in my dh's ex step dads parents house for the last 5 years with option to buy. Well we are having the paper work drawn up and he gave us a rockin' deal! It needs some more work as it is not finished but hey for 40,000 for a 4 bed room and almost acre with a shed can't be beat. Plus it is right in town! Not to mention just 450 a month for ten years and it is paid!

It needs a new ceiling, floors, and trim. But we will be working on all those things.

I am so happy that we finally have something and in 10 years it wil be ours!

setting a 'deadline' as to when a bm can file cs on a bfather. I've heard of many stories where a guy didn't know he got a girl pregnant and YEARS later she files for cs and the guy has to pay back pay on top of cs and whatever else the state requires- health insurance, daycare, etc. I know the guy isn't innocent as he probably didn't use a condom or chose to have sex in the first place. BUT when years go by and he guy lives his life and never knows about he pregnancy, let alone a child then gets hit with it- seems unfair.

Today, she wrote on her Facebook,
"Sorry to say so but "sadly" it's true. Your boyfriend cheated on, ohhhhh but I wonder with who....?"
...How sweet a message attempting the fun rhymes of Dr. Seuss
...and what do you think was the response of her friends?
'Way to go BM!'
'hahaha, when can I see you next?'
'did you tell her?!'

UGH! How am I going to handle the next 6 months??!! I was never supposed to be a SM, much less a CSM!! Yea, I know, I knew there was a chance bla,bla,bla. Lol. BUT if you would have known us 1 and ½ years ago, you would have NEVER thought I would be thrust into being a CSM. Trust me on this.