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My SS and SD are leaving for the weekend to go and see there BM,I should be happy and relaxed,but Im not Im stressing out for when they are coming back I know there is going to be drama,I am so sick of it.
Its my SS that is causing all the stress and crap in my house,I was talking with him this morning,not a word from him just a smugg look on his face,I hate the fact that he thinks it is funny,yet we all suffer because of him,my DH,thinks Im too hard on him,I want to scream so loud,that I make the house move,I get more respect from my dog,than I do my SS.
So last time ss was here he completely shattered the entire glass door. Dh talked to him about working it off before he left and whether ss realizes it or not, we meant it. So tomorrow dh has to work and has left me to put ss to work. Yea!! It works better this way because if dh was off I doubt he would enforce it or would end up helping ss. This way, I can oversee and make sure he does this all on his own! I'm having him throw out tons of stuff as I'm organizing our garage. He'll also help with cleaning rhe garage. Then he gets to do yardwork- front and back and we have a big backyard!
I have 3 step kids, the oldest is 13 male from one mom, and the other two are 12 female and 11 male, from another mom. I have one child a 5 year old female.
Last night we all went for a drive to the next town, about a 45 min drive, it was all good we met the younger 2's older sister at wal mart, we shopped hung out for a bit then went to eat.
We took the 11 and 12 year old to see their mother at work. they havent seen her since Christmas. me my husband and my 5 year old and our 13 year old sat in the car while they visited.
I am so flippin sick of BFs cry baby antics today.
DG: " Bf what is your problem today???"
BF: "I'm just having a bad day and I'm tired".
So, apperently my sm tried to call me lastnight. After all the messages back and forth that I thought pretty much cleared up how we felt-we decided to take the kids and my wonderful in-laws out to dinner. How dare I! I missed my sm's call so she left me one last message saying I have made it clear how I feel and once again she is done. She deleted from her face book(which is fine with me). How stupid she is going to feel when she finds out I was not here. She does this shit all of the time and we are all so sick of it.
My wife said this to me last night while we were getting ready to turn out the lights.
I think it is because I have ZERO tolerance for bullshit and stupid crap and the kid is tense because he knows that I will not tolerate his stupid crap. I am hyper sensitive to his cranio-rectitis and he is on egg shells because I jump his ass when he does something stupid.
So, the kid was home for slightly more than 24hrs and we are already back to our usual state of tension in the home.
Since we took my SS9's cell phone away we get nightly calls from either his BM or her Mother(Granny). Last night I decided that I didn't want to deal with it for one night and took one of the phones off the hook. I was so proud of myself. No one even noticed. Around 9pm Granny calls my DH's cell phone and I rejected the call. He was in the other room so he didn't notice. I listened to the voicemail and it made me smile. She was bitching about the fact that she had been trying to call for two hours and she just didnt understand....then I just deleted the message.
Brag! Boast! Brag! Boast! Brag! Boast !....Why does my partners 17 year old daughter going on 45 continue to feel the need to posture, position, brag and boast about her life, her boyfriends money, he’s 18 and she describes him has an investor ! Her rich friends, fancy holidays, her new car, her top grades, her looks, her hair her beauty! ... Plus she’s arrogant enough to comment and offer advice to her Mothers friends going through divorce!
Here we go again! BM is getting ready to move 8 hours away from the kids and somehow feels that she shouldn't have to pay child support. So FH has to go to court and literally fight to the death to get support for the kids. I'm sure she will not respond to the motion (probably won't even sign for it once she realizes who it's from), she won't go to the hearing, and she won't respond to any communications. And what will the court do?
We are still on a high from yesterdays win at mediation. I can not believe that she agreed to not pursue. You have to read yesterdays blog. But, BM gets no CS. She was so sure the last 9 months that she was entitled to all this money. Nothing. Zero....
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