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I've posted about the kids making comments about my ffood before but last night I made VERY KID FRIENDLY pizza wraps. Pepperoni, cheese, and pizza sauce rolled into a tortilla.
The kids looked at them coming out of the oven
"I don't like that"
Took a bite and spit it out on the plate and asked for strawberries out of the fridge.
Called the wraps a 3 out of 5
I kept my cool til the end of the meal
"you might as well throw the rest away."
It started with a message a step sister I never met sent me. My father has custody of her five year old daughter. 
Apparently her mother and my father petitioned to take her child. I am estranged from my father for obvious reasons. I don't go on FB so I didn't know this chick even messaged me.
So today I went to 7-11 to get myself and my husband a slushie. My SD was upstairs entertaining herself with a new boyfriend. When she came down to grab a snack she threw a fit and became quite nasty. She stormed back upstairs and it wasn't until her father got it out of her that she was upset that we "apparently" always forget about her and never get her anything......This coming from a VERY ANGRY SM because I give my SD EVERYTHING!!!!! I put MY kids second to make sure that she has it all.....
SO what did I have to do?????
Well i have never "blogged" before, or written a diary, or spoken to really anyone about things going on with family life (with the exception of a few good friends) but i think desperate times call for change, and im hoping this might help 
i guess ill introduce my situation as breifly as possible, and get more into detail with later posts.
1) He still hasn't filed for CS (after going on 3 years of us having FULL custody), yet I feel indebted to his children forever because I have to live with them. He just had to call me from the psychiatrists office to ask what the major incident was that finally led up to SD being sent to the behavioral health facility (which was her trying to get SS10 and nephew 4 to touch her breasts) but yet BM doesn't have to do ANYTHING for HER kids. 2) Whenever we do things together, I'm the only one not in our pictures because he "just doesn't think to take any pictures".
Please help me come up with some craft ideas to keep the boys occupied. I want to show them that they can be creative and have fun without TV or video games.
*inexpensive crafts please.
I am mom of 2 boys and a SM to one boy. We are planning a wedding for this August and my SS (with support from his counselor)wants us to put it off until he is 18. He is 14 now and they claim he needs his dad to put him as #1 priority in his life, the BM as #2 and I could be #3. This boy has come in and out of our lives and played our hearts like a harp. I am very exhausted and not wanting to put our wedding off any longer as we have waiting for more than 3 years as it is for things to get better between him and his dad.
I got a job! I got a job! I got a job, hey, hey, hey, hey! Nights and weekends baby!!! You know what that means? No longer do I have to feel as though I have to take their abuse because DH is supporting me. No longer do I have to sit at home and be miserable in their company.
Amazing......BM deserves to rot in hell for what she has done to skids. She kicked them out of her mothers home this past weekend. SO had to buy them 2 one way tickets to come back today. BM was threatening to drop them off at the police station or take them to foster care. Why? All because SD17 would not sign an "affidativ" to help BM take SO back to court. According to BM, SO is a crazy maniac that snorts cocaine. And he hits Ubrng and SS15.
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