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Two things bothering me right now...

c-mom's picture

1) He still hasn't filed for CS (after going on 3 years of us having FULL custody), yet I feel indebted to his children forever because I have to live with them. He just had to call me from the psychiatrists office to ask what the major incident was that finally led up to SD being sent to the behavioral health facility (which was her trying to get SS10 and nephew 4 to touch her breasts) but yet BM doesn't have to do ANYTHING for HER kids. 2) Whenever we do things together, I'm the only one not in our pictures because he "just doesn't think to take any pictures". Yet, I've seen how many pictures he has taken of her, and it is plenty. Matter of fact, there is a box of them in the garage... still... to... this... day! (Keeping them for his kids of, course). I wish I had had some foresight into what it is like to be #2. If I ever have a daughter, I am going to do my absolute best to push her in the direction of a man without a past that he has to drag around with him. Rant over. Sorry for this little outburst.

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c-mom's picture

I don't mean like I come second to her, just mean I'm the new wife. I have to be reminded every day that there was one before me. I am lucky in that we have no contact with her but she still finds ways to get through to the kids even though she has been told she is to have absolutely no contact with them until she cleans up her life. And she gets them to be her little minions running around my home making me miserable.

kathc's picture

Go out to the garage, toss the box of pictures. OOPS. Was cleaning and it looked like a pile of junk.

c-mom's picture

hehehe I would love to do it but he is right. Those are memories that his children will cherish and so the box will stay until they move out and it will get packed with them. Sometimes I would love to be as childish as BM though. OOPS! Flood damage. LOL