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The eldest has today unfriended me on facebook. If you've read the previous entry re being blocked for calling her out for breaking curfew, you, like i will have seen this coming. Be that as it may, im experiencing a mixture of emotions and would never conciously seek to give someone my persnal power = time, energy...hatred even. Such dilligence would have been better spent on say...learning a new language, rather than taking me down.
I could speak to her about it but see little point.
FDH has been working for his company for 3 years now, he lost his job as an R&D Engineer when he got divorced and has been floundering around trying to keep the BMs happy and an open visitation since. When I met him he was working at MCD's full time and a grocery store part time for the flexible hours because of how ridiculous his visitation was.
So we found out from our lawyer that BM isn't working where she said she is. We also found out that her and her rapist husband thought it was hilarious that they hid their marriage from everyone and she bragged about it at work. We now have a DHS report that says that her DH has been beating SD11 down and calling her names while BM sits back and lets it happen. The same DH that BM said was no longer around.
Why is it again that we don't have these kids? Does anyone know how to get a judge disbarred? This is insane!
I haven't been on here in quite a while now, SD33 has not made contact with me since she and DH had a falling out over 2 years ago.
Yes, lying by omission is indeed, still a lie. I know this, you all know this, hell even small children understand this. But my dh, he just can't grasp the gist of it. I asked for a follow-up regarding the drama stirred up by BM or twat waffle, as I am now calling her, regarding the need for ss to see a "therapist" due to "anxiety". See my previous blog on fourth of July. Evidently, the "therapist" has been trying to reach him...since last week. A fact he neglected to mention, yet again.
New job is going AWESOME, but I'm so busy I can barely breathe! Far cry from being bored for 7+ hours per day at the last job. I've already impressed my bosses, my old coworkers have welcomed me back and I'm doing well here.
DD15 and I have been doing tons of things this summer so far and I can't believe she's only with us for another month before heading back to Michigan. We've gone to 4 concerts so far and have 2 more to go (maybe more if she finds more to attend and I have the money).
First I want to say they are good kids. Go to church and stay very good.
However their mom cuddles them and keeps them very sheltered. To point that they aren't allowed to watch movies like identity theft. Now I should they are both in their 20s. Both live at home and both are in school and make good grades.
I was very surprised when mil told me that they come to her house to watch movies and go out and have friends over. And that their mom wont let them do these things. These are basic things that teens do wow just wow.
BM has supervised visits (sv). So DH never sees her in person. BM is suppose to pay half of all medical expenses. Since she's been home BM has keep DH up with her phone number but not her address. Every time DH asked she has to hurry off the phone. So DH hasn't had a address to send the dental bills to.
BM called DH last week and asked him if he would send her some pictures of SS. (She's been in prison on and off for the last three years, so she has no picture.)
How on earth do you spend all day every day with a 3 year old and not know their potty cues?! BM hasn't had SD in daycare since they moved (it's too far, they don't have the gas, they are so broke without child support and if they get on public assistance BM has to get a *gasp* JOB! and wouldn't you know it's so unfair that if they go after DH for child support, BM will have to pay too since she doesn't actually have custody!
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