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When I met DH, both kids were sleeping in the bed with him even though they had their own rooms and beds. It was a long process but him and I worked together to get them to sleep in their own beds. For the past two years they sleep in their beds most of the time but sometimes they come into our room in the middle of the night when they can't stay asleep.
I'm going to try posting my blog as a comment.
For all of you wondering how I am doing. DH decided to finally come home last night around 5. I checked his credit card he went to a hotel. Then he spent the day at my brother's house stewing. So my brother's ass is in hot freaking water for not telling me anything. DH gave me a lot of BS apology crap and even started to cry. I took his credit card and took me and baby to a nice hotel for a few days on him. I told him he can pick up his kids from his mom's and to not call me because I won't answer since he couldn't answer his damn phone.
Yesterday I told (soon to be ex)BF I was moving to this other town with the help of this new acquaintance I met. He interpreted it as I met another man and moving in with him, so I let him believe that. Then his attitude changed, no more telling me how much "sacrifice" he made for me concerning his kids; no more talking about spending unnecessary money on his kids was the right thing to do; no more telling me to move out before he comes back from the vacation with his kids.
FDH is at his contempt hearing now. It started an hour ago and I haven't heard a word! I have no idea what's going on. Not even sure if the judge is going to hear his counter-claim today. I am soooo nervous. This could kill us financially if he loses. And if we get the relief we're asking for (that she drive 50% for visitation) it will make things so much better.
I feel like I am seriously about to shake out of my own skin I am so freaking nervous! Do these things normally take this long?
I have been with my husband for 4 years left him we decided to work things out n recently married in June. The relationship between myself n him has never been better the problem is his almost 10 year old daughter. Every night before bed or even after shes in bed comes into our room tears running down her face saying she doesnt want to sleep in her bed. She even asked him to make her a bed in our room. (NOT) ! If I get too close to him or kiss him when they come in after he gets off work she gets mad n pouts!
OK, so I'm still fairly new here and its so hard to keep up with all the blogs cuz its soooo active here, which I love, but my back story is all in my first blog (its a long story) which tells about what my situation is with SD's and BM.
I was out running errands earlier. DH called me on his lunch break, so I was talking to him for a minute. "Friend" beeped in. I was busy talking to DH and really not in the mood to talk to her, so I ignored it. "Friend" called again. Again, still busy, still not in the mood. DH's lunch break is almost over so I let him know I'm on my way home and I'll text him when I get home safe. A few minutes later he calls back.
Due to the overwhelming stress I have been under and the fact that I have been working seven days in a row for weeks (minus the one week I was on vacation) I have been unable to sleep. Don't get me wrong. I'm logging in maybe two to three hours a night, but that's it. I have been laying in bed for weeks staring at the ceiling. I fall asleep for about two hours and then bam! I'm awake. My brain won't shut off, and my mind replays every mistake I've ever made like it's preparing for a parole hearing. But last night I fell asleep...and stayed asleep. I hope there is a repeat tonight.
I moved out of my bf's house a couple days ago. I told him I need some time alone to see if I really want to continue with this relationship. The BM is still horrible and his dd is really getting to me. I am at the point where I truly don't want to see her, hear about her, or need to know anything anymore. I feel like I just don't care anymore. The bf feels like I have left him all alone in this situation, and while I have, he just doesn't get how hard it is on my side of things. I get that he is going through a lot, we both are.