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Feral Forger SD20 and her new job and college classes

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Submitted by CLove on Thu, 01/16/2020 - 4:27pm

Doesnt that sound like a nice caption, with all kinds of promise for a post about Feral Forger and her New Year - New Leaf, all the possibilities for becoming a better version of herself?

Yeah, well, no. She has been comming to the family vigils over MIL, along with the severely unwelcome Toxic Troll, who sits around, gets in the way and eats all the food.

And has apparently been bragging about her new job and her college classses.

Post Script - Waiting on Mother in law

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Submitted by CLove on Wed, 01/15/2020 - 11:34am

Well, last night was pretty heavy. Thanks STalkers for hanging in there with me. Its an emotionally loaded time for my family. More on that...

Dh and I had it out, and picked at the scabbed wound called Feral Forger. He knows how I feel, and I know how he feels. I told him, "hey, my feelings are MY feelings, and its ok for me to have them."

Poem to my MIL

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Submitted by CLove on Wed, 01/15/2020 - 4:32am

so we got into a huge fight tonight,

turns out he HATES the part of me that HATES HIS PRECIOUS FIRST BORN DAUGHTER. Wow. He doesnt consider the effort and love i give his youngest. Guess her and I were both right!

 I went to the home and everyone was gathered there.

everyone was crying. i supported everyone. i brought tissues. i hugged. i hugged hard. i stayed out of the way.

but husband was very raw/ and i poked my finger in the sore. frick. He said it and I asked for divorce.And he said ok.

Dhs Mom critacally ill - hope I dont have to see Feral Forger and Toxic Troll

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Submitted by CLove on Tue, 01/14/2020 - 4:44pm

Its here. Shes 97 1/2. A very long and prolific existence. Dh is the youngest of 13.

Last week she was at the hospital and now shes at home, and they are giving her MAYBE 2 days. Ive had flu bug for 2 days but Im told it doesnt matter, just come to the house. Everyone is gathering. I dont feel at all bad that I am hoping and praying I wont see Feral Forger SD20 or her mother Toxic Troll BM.

Toxic Troll wants a bar in her living room and other daily chuckles

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Submitted by CLove on Tue, 01/07/2020 - 12:57pm

LOL.

Ok, I KNEW ToxicTroll was crazy and now this proves my point.

Toxic Troll was recently eveicted from her place of residence at the end of November.

She did not move her furnishings.

Munchkin SD13 has a bean bag to sleep on, Feral Forger has her old bed in the living room. Feral Forger recently acquired a job working graveyard, thusly comes to apartment and sleeps all day or goes off to party and play with friends.

Happy New Year Steptalkers - gains and losses

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Submitted by CLove on Thu, 01/02/2020 - 10:53am

Well, another year is upon us. I took a bit of a computer break this vacation. Was too lazy to even comment about it. Did a bit of cleaning and organizing.

NYE, my Dh, myself, and a female mutual friend splurged on tickets to an 80's party, and my husband suprised me with an overnight stay in an oceanside luxury hotel. Sounds nice right?

Welllllllllll.

It started out ok. Then slid into a ditch, was saved and ended well until DH got sick from "tequila flu". He is not a person who drinks, and his body has trouble processing alcohol.

Munchkin Sd13 Apologized...!

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Submitted by CLove on Thu, 12/26/2019 - 6:51pm

WEll gash darn it, this kid is growing up!

She was nice enough all day, but around mid afternoon, called to me as I was passing her, and we had a nice conversation about things that had happened Christmas Day.

Muchkin said that she was sorry that she had reacted badly to my offer of taking her clothes shopping instead of game shopping, and that she was sorry she had cried and "been selfish". WOW! I mean, simply wow. I am so proud of her.

Regression and progression and merry day after...

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Submitted by CLove on Thu, 12/26/2019 - 1:51pm

Thank you to everyone for the open and honest input from my Christmas post.

First - I turned it around this time. Instead of staying around, feeling bad because shes cying (I imagined) in her room, avoiding me and cleaning or lounging in a dark living room in my jammies watching netflix movies (which under any other circumstances would have been wonderful), instead I put my stuff in my backcpack and drove to the coast and walked on a trail along the beach.

Not a very merry christmas morning

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Submitted by CLove on Wed, 12/25/2019 - 12:31pm

Oh well. I tried. I extended myself and got through it I thought well enough. Last night (Christmas eve) was a huge party at DH's mothers house and eVERYONE was there, except one who was stuck at the airport in Southern California.

Poor sop.

Then there was the SIL who just had back surgery and was upset so she showed up, with her boyfriend. Who is known to do drugs.

But mostly everything was ok.

Then I wake up this morning to a pile of dog p**p.

Happy Holidays and Merry Christmas Steppers!

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Submitted by CLove on Tue, 12/24/2019 - 10:49am

Im being so lazy with Christmas! Its here, yay! Looking forward to a nap and then festivities and gorging on delicious food, seeing my parents and doing the massively fun white elephant gift exchange for adults after the kiddos do a gift grab extravaganza,

Munchkin SD13 is really looking forward to it after spending Saturday celebrating Christmas with BM Toxic Troll, SD20 Feral Forger, and TT's sister Homeless Troll along with grandparents on that side.

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