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Road bump

Ok, so I bought my laptop - its beautiful!!!! All by myself with my own financing and set up and EVERYTHING. Always had hand-me-downs before, so this is a BIG DEAL.

ok. So for the Road bump:

I checked the parent portal for Backstabber/Munchkin - Failing Art, Failing Orchestra, and D in honors English. High Bs all other classes. Shes at our house because Toxic Troll is at yet another doctors appointment.

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cLove and Matriculations

WELL. I took your advice (those who advised me) and decided to go back to school!

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Update and "funny story" about Restraining Orders

Thank you to all that posted comments that were helpful and supportive. Its been a crazy week. And its not over yet.

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Took the advice...and here's how it went, folks

I told Husband that he would not be able to leave B/M SD14 at home alone, either he takes her or drops her off with her mother, Toxic Troll.

His reaction was to rage out at me and yell "this is her home too and she can stay if she wants, or you can get the fuck out"

Then, for further emphasis "If you dont like it, I want a divorce, I just want out, I want a divorce, I want out"

I wrote everything down and he signed it as a record, because too many times things are redacted and "no I did not say that".

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Anxious...

Well, anxious because Backstabber/Munchkin (B/M) is back with us tonight. And Dh is having a colonoscopy Friday so Im juggling how to do drop-off and pickup and still get my work done. And well, about those weekend fishing trips...

The way Ive figured things, from what Ive read on here, is that I need to insist on her either going with him (she will want to stay and "study for finals" or stay to "get her schoolwork done", which is ridiculous because - my bad - shes been logging 3-4 hours daily and 8 hours daily on weekends with Kansas City - yes I know...)

Advice on Switzerland Friends/Sort of steplife

Greetings and happy Monday, hope everyone had a great weekend.

Something happened this weekend and this morning that really made me think.

"Am I the A$$hole here" kind of thinking, Tell me, please.

This weekend was mothers day, as we all know. It came up in casual conversation, that DH didnt wish Toxic Troll "Happy Mothers Day" this year. Im like "you wish her happy mothers day previously? What about happy birthday? Merry Christmas?"

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Advice please (Little Darling chronicles)

Since last Tuesdays blowup, things have been calm (walking on eggshells) and LD SD14 has been her "sweet" self and talking to me (superficially, but no shunning which is good). I took the advice and took myself out to the beach and out to live music and friends. Safely. Dh and LD went fishing. Bonded.

And yesterday she went to her mothers so I relaxed well once she was gone.

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Healing after the battle

Thank you for everyones spport. It is truly a huge help in this battle for souls.

I lost the battle. Little Darling SD14 won. She won complete unfettered access to her phone and her friend. She won complete freedome at school. She won. But she lost me. She lost my time, resources, attention and intention for her ultimate good. She lost me, for the foreseeable future, as well she lost all days languishing at home with me while DH is out fishing.