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BM called to let SS know that her sister had the baby and she is going to drive him an hour tom. to see the baby for an hour and then drive him home an hour because tom. she only gets her son for 3 hours on wed. and instead of waiting for the weekend, which is her weekend for him to see the baby, he is 5 and does not even like babies, she is going to drive for 2 out of her 3 hours with her son who she has not seen in 6 days.Plus she gets him thurs. nights during the summer on her weekends so he gets to drive another hour on thurs.
DH has FINALLY hired a lawyer. After 2 years of telling him that BM is not going to pay the debt that she agreed on in the divorce decree, she is not going to listen to reason because she isn't a reasonable person, and she thinks that she's above working, he's finally had enough. I was starting to think the day would never come. She honestly thinks that nobody can do anything to her about all the debt she owes & that it's all DH's fault she's got completely wrecked credit. Good luck with that princess. I hope he also follows through with his threat to call DFS on her.
This woman is such a piece of work. Lets call her "lard bat" because she's a stupid, fat, batsh!t crazy blob. Needless to say, FH loathes lard bat. Only his dislike for BM equals it. She once took oldest SD when she was just a baby and hid her from FH. And I truly believe she's the reason BM is the way she is. I mean, who lets a 14 year old girl hang out in sailor bars getting drunky with grown men returning from a six month cruise???
BM is getting married next month and frankly I am thrilled. I only hope and pray she dumps my last name and takes her new guys! The funny thing is up to this point DH and I had heard nothing about it and seeing as we have 50/50 placement, you'd think she'd want to get things organized early. Last night we finally get an email demanding extra days next month for her schedule with us being the taxis.
Unfortunately, I am still part owner of the house that my ex and I bought years and years ago. He will not or cannot refinance to get my name off of the mortgage (his credit is rock bottom), and he has let the house get into such bad condition that it's not sellable. So, because he stopped making payments on the house back in DECEMBER, the house is in foreclosure, and yoo-hoo, guess who got served?? ME! He owes me almost $20,000 in equity, but that's not getting paid either. I will likely never see any of that money, and I don't really care about it at this point. I just want out!!!
so this morning on my way to work, fh calls to say we need to do some serious talking. He went online and read all my messages and blogs on steptalk.
needless to say things are not good, not because of the things i said necessarily, but because i repeated private info. I feel horrible now realizing how much he is hurt and says he no longer trusts me with private info.
i want to delete my account, can some one please tell me how...
im supposed to be getting married in 2.5 weeks....i guess we shall see
She alledges we abuse SD (emotionally, physically, & over medicate her), we leave SD in unknown places with unknown people where she is anxious, frightened and sad, we sometimes do not give her the medications and sometimes we have over medicated her, no one in VA likes her here, DH's sister has intentionally burned her with an iron, told the counselor I hit her and scream at her constantly when she visits, SD is so afraid of us she hides her clothing to keep from coming, we threatened her to take SD out of cheerleading, force her to drive 1/2 way, we constantly change meeting locations
BM officially doesn't want her kids anymore. She has been trying to make it look like she's had them some this summer, but they spend most of the time at their grandparents and the few days they actually spend at her place, she is at work all day. My SS16 finally said the words out loud "I hate going over there-it sucks". I don't have the heart to tell him she wants them another week in August. My SS18 has already made it very clear he hates going over there to see her and doesn't want to.
ok, first of all I just want to thank you all that responded to my first post! All the responses helped in one way or another.
this is my first marriage and i want it also to be the only one. i know that their are a lot of wiser and older women in this site. so im just seeking advice for my situation. well my husband and i are back on talking terms again. about a week ago we were about to get a divorce over his 7 year old daughter. i tried talking to him about our situation he did not want to here what i was saying.
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