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Well this weekend will be all about SD8....again....

jojo71's picture

SD8 had acid reflux today. Daddy picked her up early from school. As soon as I got home, he left with her to take her to the clinic. Was I just a neglectful mother or something??....I never took my BS18 or BD14 to the clinic for acid reflux. ??? I think he's overreacting. He did say that the doctor said it's gastritis. I feel bad that she has this, but geez...my son had it too...still does...and I give him some Tums and he's fine. SD8 won't take Tums cause they're "gross".

The very reason we ALL get a bad wrap...

Anne Summers's picture

I found this tonight while surfing the web. I think it is the "stereotypical" reason on why we ALL get a bad wrap as a SM. Geez, I just wish someone would write into one of these columns one time and say---"BM and/or Daddy-o are bums and my SM/SD are awesome!" LOL---I'm dreaming. Wink

Seems like it is in the air... BF upset because I confronted him

Freedom2005's picture

Not a good day today. I enjoy this blogging as a vent if nothing else. I also keep a notebook of things for myself.

I am wondering if my relationship will continue very much longer. I confronted BF today about SD10. As usual when I do this, he gets defensive. He thinks I am wanting him to choose between me and his daughter. I would never want to do that. As you all have seen though,who have read my other blogs, his relationship with his daughter is not healthy, even the counselor says so.

Why does the PAS bother me more than him?

justme2's picture

My husband has been taking his kids (my skids) to play b-ball at the local Y. He has been doing this for about two weeks. He has even taken the BM's nephew since he is living with them now since her mom has passed and the teen's mom lives in another state. Anyway - the skids have gone to play ball and have fun. All of a sudden it has stopped for about a week. I didn't know why. My Hubby said they are probably tired or something.

Let the PAS war begin!

Shaman29's picture

It has begun.

We have not seen step-demon (SD13) since Father's Day Weekend, and she has not come over on any of her scheduled weekends. DH gets an email from step-demon's email account that was obviously written by UberSkank, stating that she's too busy, has plans or can't come over that particular weekend. She has missed out on her family visits, fun day trips and great BBQ's with our friends.

Last Friday UberSkank sends DH a text stating "I NEED you to BUY step-demon stuff for school. She will be coming over next weekend to see you."

:jawdrop:

Need Ideas On How To Handle Severely PAS'ed 19yo SD-What Do We Do?

musical1's picture

My SD was PAS'ed to the maximum by her biofather for years getting really bad at age 17. SD was promised EVERYTHING by her mostly absent biofather for 4 years including having her rowdy girlfriend come down and live with them, to BMW convertible sports car, laptop computer, live in "country club" home in sunny FL, free access to alchohol, no rules, basically everything he could think of that was expensive, etc.

New Here

MeanOleMe's picture

Hi! I found this site awhile ago, and decided to start blogging/posting. I need a place to vent and get things out. I have tried other SM boards, but my situation with my eldest SD is really out of hand, and most just don't know what to say. Heck, I don't know what to say. Sometimes, I just need to get it out!

ARGGG, I’m mad at my husband at the moment.

momatwittsend's picture

ARGGG, I’m mad at my husband at the moment.

He hasn’t seen SD since July, he has seen SS once in August (his course wouldn’t allow it, he was way too busy I get that part).

So he has to work awayall weekend. Great not a big deal, I have tons of shit to do. So his brilliant plan? Have me drive the kids to where he is working for the weekend, so we can sit in his apartment while he works…..

Things I hate about being a step-mom (also venting, lol)

emptyrisksagain's picture

You know what? I adore the idea of being able to say what I hate. I love even more that a wiser woman on here decided to start that thread. I am SO jeakous that I didn't think of it. LOL. But I will, to keep from being trashed by some...list what I love first:

What I love:

1. NOTHING.

That's right, y'all. I said it. Woohoo look at the evil bitch who hates the entire situation. I hope I can become a diversion to the others in the original post. Wink

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