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I feel torn......not sure what to do so need some help from you guys.....
5 days into our summer visitation with SD7 and the shit has already hit the fan. The minute that BM realized that she couldn't be 100% in control she flipped out. DH has already received 2 nasty emails, criticizing his parenting skills, and accusing him of stealing the charger to the stupid phone that she insisted their 7 year old needed for her visit. Why the hell would he steal or hide a charger? If he were going to steal or hide something it would be that freaking phone!
Hello All,
It's been a while since i've been on here - honestly have to say things have been going relatively well - at least good enough that i'm not pulling my hair out. I wanted to put this out there though to see what anyone else might have to say about it.
Well... The skids were supposed to spend 2 weeks with bm and guess what?? She could not stay sober long enough to care for them! We got a call from the state police to come get them cuz she was to drunk to care for them. I guess 2 stints in rehab was not enough. Ugh I wish she would get her sh*t together. Hopefully the judge will not order them to go back. I want a break but not if the skids are in danger.....Ugh :?
I tried to disengage myself from the situation with BM, but DH got an email from her yesterday:
[DH]
Just wanted you to know that [SS6] will be starting back to school on August 10. If you would like to visit with him here for these two weeks before school starts that’s fine.
He has a field trip at day camp on the 28th which would be nice if he could keep.
Hope your surgeries have gone well.
If your mother wants to talk to him, tell her to call after 6 pm. We will talk about her visiting with him and work something out.
[XW]
Ok-so heard that SD got highlights yesterday -which bf couldn't help himself but comment that even if it looked nice-she now looked even MORE like her mother (who gets her hair highlighted once a month-vs my once a year) and that she was too young to get them.
Things that make me CRAZY !!!
I got upset this weekend from the same old same old that is the way I am treated by SD. But also by the lack of parenting by DH, leaving me to either address it myself and be the bad guy or ask him to address it and become a nag. I took the dog, went for a walk, ignored everyone and basiclly withdrew from them all. DH knew I was upset.
At one point I saw him and SD having a conversation on the front porch and she was crying so I can only assume he was giving her a talking to.
She passed away last night. She battled almost three years with cancer. It is really sad. I cannot even begin to imagine how my SS must be feeling. My own parents are still alive. My SIL and BIL are helping with the funeral arrangements. It is this friday. BM's family will be coming out of state for the funeral. BM"s poor father. He was in an assisted living facility. It must be very hard on him.
I have to gloat!!
Last night I picked up SD9 from her mothers house. (she's been staying with her mother since Monday.)
This particular article does not mention the fact that he's a skid, but in other local articles, it clearly mentioned that his STEPDAD feels "regret" over what his skid has done.
http://www.wham1180.com/cc-common/news/sections/newsarticle.html?feed=12...
Now some may say this is sheer speculation on my part and granted, there is speculation here, but this guy has been getting into trouble for a very long time and *someone* keeps bailing him out.