http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Slz-a1bfQA&list=FLToc_Pjm6BVsRuzN3UUzO1w...

What do you think about this situation? I think this little girl was really screwed up, but I know Dr. Phil sent her to a camp/place for troubled teens, and she got a lot of help.

I'm so thankful that I was open with him about all of my thoughts and fears. Someone suggested that I talk to him and we did but the fist conversation left me feeling worse because it added to my list of questions. However, we talked again...and then again...and then again. I started the conversation last night with the statement "You're gonna hate me for what I'm about to say!" He assured me that there was nothing I could say that would make him hate me!

It was less than 5 days ago where exH and I sat down to discuss the kids' summer schedules, expectations, etc. During this meeting exH mentioned he was going to try to take some time off to take the kids camping. Fine, great, no problem.

I also let him know that I would be making plans for me and the kids m-f days, since they will be home with me during my maternity leave but if he wanted them on his days or any extras just to let me know in advance. Fine, great, no problem.

So my husband admitted that he treats my son differently than he does his two sons! I knew this all along, and I even asked him on numerous occasions if it was because we had my son 90% of the time as opposed to having his kids maybe 5 times a year.I asked him if he felt guilty for having to step up and be my sons father when he can't really be his kids dad. His answer of course was always "no when I married you I knew ya'll where a packaged deal" etc.... As soon as we started living together I automatically spotted the difference and tried to point it out to him.