She proceeded to send additional texts till about 1 in the morning. DH's final text was that bm as lame and good night and to take him to court. We then proceeded to have alone time with the phone turned off.

Apparently bm sent another 20 texts to dh until 1 am stating that her and her man would take care of as, that me / sm was so abusive. Lol.

Thanks bm. We'll turn those in tomorrow morning along with our police report since you are clearly breaking the restraining order.

ExH finally showed up (three weeks later) to complete his portion of ds12's ortho payment plan. He stuck around during the appointment and asked if we could speak after. (See earlier blog posts outlining what went down including my ultimately staying that is speak to him no further until an apology was issued).

ExH finally said that I was right last night. He didn't actually apologize (because he's not able to do that) but he did say I was right and that he should have addressed his concerns directly with the principal a month ago when he originally voiced his concerns to me (and I suggested he speak with her). He agreed that that is not an appropriate way for adults to act (throwing the principal under the bus in front of her teachers, students, interns at a rehearsal.

Principal and I chatted a bit. She said that she was not trying to cause any drama by contacting me last night but she was truly concerned that my daughter was getting yanked from the entire show as SM was so agressive.

So... SM comes in and stands by principal who is in the front row directing the scene. Principal sees her and asks if she can help her. Principal has never seen her before but when SM asks if DD needed to be there, she figured it was the SM. Principal says yes that it's a full cast dress rehearsal the night before opening night.