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When I found out I was two months pregnant it was a surprise we were trying and I thought it would take a while. I took a test because I missed my period and found out I was pregnant. I didn't have any major symptoms I felt normal. Now I'm four months my tummy feels bloated. I have bad gas. I feel like i'm always craving something and stuffing my mouth. I'm constantly yawning and I feel like I never get enough sleep. Since I'm being honest I have to admit that i'm not happy being pregnant. I'm excited and filled with dread at the same time.
As a parent, all I hope for is that one day my child finds someone that loves her as much as she loves them. Someone who cherishes her, respects her, is her best friend and confidant; someone who won’t be capricious with her feelings. What race, creed or gender that person is, is inconsequential.
Am I in the minority? If your child fell in love with someone of a different religion, would you be upset? What about a different race? What if your child fell in love with someone of the same sex as her or she?
The skids SD11 and SD12 finally arrived and BM stayed a loooooooooong time.
So my DH seems to think it's weird that I would let my BS4 grandmother watch our BD4months. He says it's weird, wrong, and that I should respect him on this bc it's his daughter to. I don't think it's weird one bit but he gave me the scenario of his EXW mother watching our daughter, and YES that's weird they ALL hate him and according to him were very mean to him. My BS4 grandmother is the absolute kindest lady I have ever met. The first day I met her I was 15 years old (I"M now 25) and she took me in as hers, she's been like a second mother to me.
DH just received a phone call from BM who was moaning and groaning in a sexual manner when he answered the phone. DH ended the call. BM called him again to tell him she is embarrassed she dialed the wrong number.
What are your thoughts? Do you really think she dialed the wrong number?
I want my son and my stepkids to grow up and be good men and good human beings. But in today's society we have so many things influencing our kids. From the internet to TV/video games, radio and friends at school. We can't cant monitor them 24/7 especially when they grow older.
So I heard from my SS today. Not great news 
She did recently get her daughter back but there is an active case because the little girl has been molested.
Not only that but my 22 yr old SB caught my father and SM deleting pictures my child pornographer 1/2 brother put of the little girl naked.
So BM replied 2 days later (see previous post http://www.steptalk.org/node/159238), clearly she had to think about it because she usually whips off 1000 word replies within minutes.
And it begins like this: "SM31, you know what SM31? I thought your offering to help was..." and I don't know what comes next because that's all that's in the preview and I have archived that email and won't open it until who knows when because I'm pretty sure there's nothing in there that pertains to the kids.
When I think about my relationship with my FDH, the weakest link in our relationship it is without a doubt SS15 with aspergers. It is the one area we have trouble communicating about, I think my FDH has some denial or trouble accepting it. I also think he tries to forget about it, he focuses on our relationship so much that sometimes I even forget about SS. Let’s face it, in someways I would like to forget about him and FDH makes it easy to. He makes sure we have our own adult time and special experience without SS.
Work related vent - do not mess with my reps. They are smart and well trained. If you decided to hinder their progress or keep them from helping their customers, then you risk my inner bitch coming out and crushing your soul.
Ahem........
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