You are here

thinkthrice's Blog

Chef Goes To Court

thinkthrice's picture

In this case the Girhippo is the petitioner who has "out of the kindness of her heart" let us know that SD20 is emancipating.

The Girhippo has never followed the CO nor has done anything out of the kindness of her heart toward Chef.  She totally screwed him in the divorce; part of that is Chef's fault because he let her.

All she has done was go out of her way to financially screw him and alienate the children, in which she was extremely successful with the help of her  family.

UPDATE: Mr. Neutral's Son Goes To Divorce Court

thinkthrice's picture

Disclaimer:  Chef heard this through his half sister's boyfriend. 

Seems the BM went on a spending spree with the tax return AFTER the divorce was filed.   Obviously not allowed so Neanderthal's (Mr. Neutral's son) attorney insisted that the BM pay back 50% of what she spent of the refund.   This was their first appearance--custody and CS to be decided at a later date.

Mr. Neutral Didn't Call Last Night

thinkthrice's picture

The agreement was he was supposed to call Chef and tell him "In Your Face" so to speak--that Chef and I were wrong and that Mr. Neutral's son got at the very least 50/50 custody (he was going for FULL custody--I tried to keep a straight face on that one) and no CS changing hands or possibly the BM paying CS to Mr. Neutral's son. 

We were told by Mr. N that he hired the best attorney in the area (not saying much) for the divorce and that said lawyer would work his magic in the courtroom.

What I speculate actually happened was this:

Disney/Guilty Parenting Extends To Pets, Too!

thinkthrice's picture

We have adopted a new kitten, a female Bengal who is extremely active and teething.  We play with her and she has boatloads of toys to chew on, play hunt and climb.  I have already trained her not to bite/teethe on me.  Chef? Not so much.  He just allows her to teethe on him then complains she is biting him!

I showed him how to make the Cesar Milan noise that works on cats as well.  ION, we also adopted a young, very shy female blue/sealpoint siamese that looks very similar to my beloved older kitty who passed and was the Bombay"s companion cat.

Periodic Observations for the N00bs On This Site

thinkthrice's picture

1. Does your man allow co-sleeping with his children? (aka the kiddies routinely jump into bed with him at night)

2. Does he have to lie down with them to get them to sleep?

3. Do the children seem somehow "stunted" socially? Do they have poor hygiene habits, eating habits, bedtime habits?

4. Does your man subscribe to the "one big happy family" model? (expects you to love his children as much as or more than him)

5. Does your man have the "inability" to say no to his children?

6. Do his children seem overly "hyperactive" to you?

Pages