So....DH took OSS to the emergency room a few weeks back and BM showed up there and started drama because apparently my house is dirty or I don't wash my hands when I am cooking meals...LOL....Any way, the kid just threw up in a parking lot so I told DH that he needs to just take him to an urgent care clinic. Well of course he didn't listen and low and behold we get a bill from the hospital yesterday and $1900 is what DH owes. I just laughed and told DH that maybe next time he will listen to me and that a kid throwing up doesn't mean an emergency.
So...some of my stuff was missing and one of the things was was my cleaner and apparently my DH found it stuffed in a drawer. It went on a skid weekend and of course they lied and said they didn't take it. Disney dad over here doesn't want to say something to the skids. He just said well one of them probably took it and then just stuffed it in a drawer because they didn't want to get in trouble.
Does anyone else here think that their DH still carries a torch for the BM? I know that my marriages is in shambles right now. We have a sexless marriage and everything revolves around the skids and what they want. DH agreed to go to counseling when we can afford but I don't know if that will be a waste of time and money. I still feel that he carries a torch for BM. I know that he will never admit it but if he does then I think that he should be honest with me so I can leave.
So...We didn't end up going to eat with my DH's business partner. I am not complaining about that at all however, there was other drama going on. So I had plans with my dad Saturday. DH calls me and informs that OSS threw up in a parking lot and that he is taking him to the emergency room. He called BM and notified her. BM and her DH showed up at the emergency room even though DH had told her that he had it handled and he would inform her as soon as it knew something.
DH told me that his kid's are responsible for how they act. He thinks them wasting food isn't a big deal and he thinks that they don't have respect adults. He thinks that respect should be earned. Isn't it his responsibility as a parent to make sure that they are respectful towards adults and it doesn't have to be earned?
LOL...BM is being really nice she wants something. On another note....DH and me really need to go to counseling. He seems to think that I am bi polar. That is what he told me. I have been to several different psychiatrist and psychologists and they diagnosed me as having OCD and being high strung. I also have PMDD. I know that I shouldn't let it bother me what my DH says but it really does. Apparently me not putting up with crap makes me bi polar.
So...I check the mail yesterday and low and behold there's a something from BM. DH opened it and it's a notarized letter and an itinerary to some resort in Florida. CO states that DH has until April 1st to let BM know when he is taking the skids for his 30 day summer visitation. He sent her a notarized letter last week in certified mail letting her know when he was taking them for his 30 day summer visitation. I noticed BM bought the plane tickets last month and the room for the resort was also booked last month. Apparently once again BM thinks the CO doesn't pertain to her.
So BM was quiet for a few months then the psycho comes out to play again. She had another episode when DH ignored her text messages about driver's ed and she asked if she could have one of DH's weekends so the skid's to see her their grandmother. Well first of the all the kid doesn't turn 15 until October so she won't be able to sign him up for driver's ed until then. I told DH that if he wants to coordinate driver's ed with BM then that was up to him but I wasn't going to let the psycho dictate my weekends.
This morning I got to thinking that since BM has the skids on odd-numbered years for spring break and she also will still have them this weekend. The CO states that DH has them even-numbered years and he picks them up on the day that they are dismissed from school and has to take them back to BM's at 6:00 pm the day before they return to school so that would include the weekend. So I told DH that I think that BM still has them this weekend even though it's the third weekend of the month. What do you guys think?
So this weekend I noticed that something of mine was missing so I turned my house upside down looking for it. I asked DH if he has seen it and he told me no. I asked him if maybe one of the skids picked it up and moved it. I didn't accuse them of taking it. I just asked if maybe they may have accidentally moved it somewhere. Of course it turned into a drama fest. DH tells me well maybe you shouldn't leave important stuff like that just laying around. I told him well I should be able to leave whatever I want around my own house.