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On to the next episode.....

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So BM was quiet for a few months then the psycho comes out to play again. She had another episode when DH ignored her text messages about driver's ed and she asked if she could have one of DH's weekends so the skid's to see her their grandmother. Well first of the all the kid doesn't turn 15 until October so she won't be able to sign him up for driver's ed until then. I told DH that if he wants to coordinate driver's ed with BM then that was up to him but I wasn't going to let the psycho dictate my weekends.

This is BM's spring break....

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This morning I got to thinking that since BM has the skids on odd-numbered years for spring break and she also will still have them this weekend. The CO states that DH has them even-numbered years and he picks them up on the day that they are dismissed from school and has to take them back to BM's at 6:00 pm the day before they return to school so that would include the weekend. So I told DH that I think that BM still has them this weekend even though it's the third weekend of the month. What do you guys think?

Always something...

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So this weekend I noticed that something of mine was missing so I turned my house upside down looking for it. I asked DH if he has seen it and he told me no. I asked him if maybe one of the skids picked it up and moved it. I didn't accuse them of taking it. I just asked if maybe they may have accidentally moved it somewhere. Of course it turned into a drama fest. DH tells me well maybe you shouldn't leave important stuff like that just laying around. I told him well I should be able to leave whatever I want around my own house.

I shouldn't be surprised....

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So last night was DH's night to pick up the skids to stay at our house overnight. I am sitting at the computer and OSS walks into the living room and starts messing with MY TV and cable box. I asked him what he was doing no answer. I said SS are you looking for something? He says No. I said then what are you doing to the TV. He said I am looking for something. I said what are you looking for? He says a cable that I can plug into my laptop. I told him well you need to ask before taking anything or messing with anything that doesn't belong to you. He says OK.

The calm is over!!!!

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So apparently this was the quiet before the storm because psycho BM is back. Yesterday, DH's phone is getting his phone blown up with text messages asking him if he is taking the skids for spring break when it clearly states that he gets them on even numbered years however, BM is claiming he gets them every year. Maybe if you would read the whole CO and follow it and not think the CO doesn't pertain to you BM then life would be so much more simple!

This weekend is horrible

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I left on Sunday afternoon to go visit my father for a few hours because the YSS was driving me insane with the noise and sitting in front of the living room TV. Then yesterday I was off of work but had a doctor's appointment at 4:00 pm. I decided to make some soup for my grandfather and decided that I would take it to him. I told DH that I was going to visit my grandfather and take him some soup before my doctor's appointment and he asked what was I really doing and why was I wanting to leave all the time? So apparently I am lying and cheating on him.

Any advice here...

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Is it normal for a 12 year old to want to eat every two hours?  I am just curious because this kid wants to eat that much.  Both of the skids do not kjow what I boundary is or have an ystructure because my DH and the BM lets them do whatever they want and do not teach them basic life skills or respect.  I know this is a DH and BM problem and not the skid's fault.  What would you do in this situation?  I have disengaged for the most part but now it is start to hurt us financially.  Should I just separate my money and let my DH worry about it because he just simply refuses to hear my side?  I

OSS the manipulator....

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My OSS is an ultimate manipulator and I have pretty much disengaged from him. At first I wanted him to like me but, then I figured out who he really was and just stopped caring altogether. My DH has even admitted that his own kid is a manipulator but he just pretty much ignores it. I get it it's hard to accept your kid for who they really are because you love them regardless but, I just cannot have anything to do with a human being that does the things this kid does. I am this kid's main target too. I tolerate this kid when he comes to our home.

LOL Stupid BM!!!

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So, BM decides to text my DH and ask what time she can pick up the skids tomorrow?!  There was no discussion that she would be even be picking up the skids since per the CO DH has them until December 28th.  I guess her self righteous *** just expects it since he used to let her run all over him before I came along.  #1. She isn't allowed at our house for numerous of reasons.

Minor Dilemma

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I know I haven't blogged in awhile but here it is...OSS eat macaroni and cheese however he opens two boxes but just wants the cheese out of the second box.  I talked to my DH about it and of course he doesn't think it's a big deal and told me that a box of macaroni and cheese is cheap and it really doesn't matter.  I know that macaroni and cheese is cheap however it is the principle of the kid wasting my money that I work hard for.  Should I confront OSS about this or should I just stop buying the macaroni and cheese altogether?  

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