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Not looking forward to this....

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The countdown begins and the step spawn will be staying for a month at our house. My anxiety is heightened and our grocery is going to double. I will not ask my DH to not take his kids for his summer visitation but I am the only one working and I am not paying for them to eat us out of house and home. DH is trying to get his own business running and I am paying most of the bills as it is. I just feel that it is not fair to me. Am I wrong to feel this way? How do you deal with a situation like this?

Last night's nightmare...

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So...this actually happened....Tuesday, 5/14 was my dad's birthday and my DH and I got home around 9:00 pm from celebrating it and we find an empty motor oil bottle and someone had poured motor oil all over our drive way.  Fast forward to yesterday Friday, 5/17 I see this burned piece of paper in my kitchen with my DH's ex girlfriend's sons name on it.  I recognized the name and immediately know who it is because both the psycho ex girlfriend and her psycho son left a bunch of crap here at our house when I moved in. 

Really just coming to accept the fact that DH will alway give BM her way....

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So...everything has been quiet for awhile I am guessing it's because my DH gave into BM and let her have the skids last weekend but if it was the other way around it wouldn't be happening but like I told DH that is on him. As long as she doesn't show up at my house or he doesn't give her any money outside of CS I really don't care anymore. I guess I have accepted the fact that this reptile is going to be our lives for the next six more years so I might as well just stay out of the drama unless it involves BM coming to our house or DH giving BM money outside of CS.

Freaking ignorant....

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So....DH took OSS to the emergency room a few weeks back and BM showed up there and started drama because apparently my house is dirty or I don't wash my hands when I am cooking meals...LOL....Any way, the kid just threw up in a parking lot so I told DH that he needs to just take him to an urgent care clinic. Well of course he didn't listen and low and behold we get a bill from the hospital yesterday and $1900 is what DH owes. I just laughed and told DH that maybe next time he will listen to me and that a kid throwing up doesn't mean an emergency.

Disney dad at his best....

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So...some of my stuff was missing and one of the things was was my cleaner and apparently my DH found it stuffed in a drawer. It went on a skid weekend and of course they lied and said they didn't take it. Disney dad over here doesn't want to say something to the skids. He just said well one of them probably took it and then just stuffed it in a drawer because they didn't want to get in trouble.

Just down right now....

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Does anyone else here think that their DH still carries a torch for the BM? I know that my marriages is in shambles right now. We have a sexless marriage and everything revolves around the skids and what they want. DH agreed to go to counseling when we can afford but I don't know if that will be a waste of time and money. I still feel that he carries a torch for BM. I know that he will never admit it but if he does then I think that he should be honest with me so I can leave.

Here we go!!

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So...We didn't end up going to eat with my DH's business partner. I am not complaining about that at all however, there was other drama going on. So I had plans with my dad Saturday. DH calls me and informs that OSS threw up in a parking lot and that he is taking him to the emergency room. He called BM and notified her. BM and her DH showed up at the emergency room even though DH had told her that he had it handled and he would inform her as soon as it knew something.

Conversation with no logic....

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DH told me that his kid's are responsible for how they act.  He thinks them wasting food isn't a big deal and he thinks that they don't have respect adults.  He thinks that respect should be earned.  Isn't it his responsibility as a parent to make sure that they are respectful towards adults and it doesn't have to be earned?

BM is being really nice and DH thinks that I am Bi polar.

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LOL...BM is being really nice she wants something. On another note....DH and me really need to go to counseling. He seems to think that I am bi polar. That is what he told me. I have been to several different psychiatrist and psychologists and they diagnosed me as having OCD and being high strung. I also have PMDD. I know that I shouldn't let it bother me what my DH says but it really does. Apparently me not putting up with crap makes me bi polar.

Letter in the mail....

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So...I check the mail yesterday and low and behold there's a something from BM. DH opened it and it's a notarized letter and an itinerary to some resort in Florida. CO states that DH has until April 1st to let BM know when he is taking the skids for his 30 day summer visitation. He sent her a notarized letter last week in certified mail letting her know when he was taking them for his 30 day summer visitation. I noticed BM bought the plane tickets last month and the room for the resort was also booked last month. Apparently once again BM thinks the CO doesn't pertain to her.

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