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Loooong time no post!

marika's picture

I have been lurking and making a few comments off and on for the past year or so, but tonight I just need to vent a whole host of frustrations about my adult (and I use the term adult very loosely) SDs. If any of you have been around for a while, you may or may not have read my previous blogs. If you haven't, I will sum them up - I find both of my SDs to be self-absorbed little witches who care nothing about anyone but themselves.

How many of you have slept with your EX after it was over?

RustyHalo's picture

Just curious. My EX was a "two pump chump", so why would I even bother? I had better things to do like: watch grass grow, watch paint dry, wash my hair, trim my toenails, etc............

I just don't get this. And also, FH told me that BM was never really into sex that much and that she was not as "adventurous" as I am.

In my mind, if it's over - IT'S OVER.

So, I just found out that FH is a liar................he slept with BM AFTER the divorce.

RustyHalo's picture

I had specifically asked him this question many months ago and he was EMPHATIC with a big fat NO! I found out today that he is a liar. I heard this rumor today and I asked him to please be 100% honest with me and he said that "yes, he slept with her right after their divorce was final". I don't care that he slept with her. Their divorce was 4 years ago, I wasn't even around then. BUT - he lied.

I am pissed. I don't know where to go from here.

self centered BM

anbacc's picture

Ugghh, I swear everyday that goes by I am hating BM more and more. This morning I went in to my SD11 room to put her clothes away and decided to see what else her mother has been writing to her ( last blog on try or not try). Sure enough there was some things she should not be saying to her.

SD#2 20 years old and pregnant!

NeverEnding's picture

SD#2 20 years old, living with married boyfriend (not yet divorced) and pregnant! Expects everyone to pay her way.

Where do I begin? I have two SD. Both are now pregnant, one for the second time..the other, it's her first. Both of these girls have expected their bm/bf to fix any and every bit of trouble they get into. I know, it's the same old same old story.

SD#1 lives in Colorado - and is dealing legal problems because of her meth addiction.

Revolution....LOL

MiseryNMissouri's picture

My DH just called me from work and said that he and his guy coworkers said that 2010 is the year of the sexual revolution and that our family lead the way....LOL...of course he says guys want more sex than women (his BM didnt give him a lot, well how did they get the kid then..LOL), at any rate i told him that i know ladies who like loving too, so ladies chime in, we are 8 days in the new year how many times have you broken off your DH a little something something.....

Why are we held to higher expectations not only by everyone in our lives, but on here too?

smnikki's picture

i posted a blog about an out burst i had with bm last night. she was calling me names because she herd me telling dh points he was forgetting to bring up with her.

so i yelled back in the background...im a better mother, youre a jealous fat bitch, thats pretty much the extent of my immature behavior. and while i agree it was immature, why do i have to ALWAYS sit back and allow bm to make immature personal attacks against me?

When do they stop eating like pigs?

littlelucy's picture

SS10 eats like a pig. Skewers food on his fork, mass quantities of it and then proceeds to eat it like a corndog on a stick. He has no knowledge of proper use of utensils. NONE. He has to be reminded at EVERY bite how to do it correctly. EVERY SINGLE BITE. I refuse to take the pig to a restaurant. I'm going to fake an upset stomach tonight to get out of eating at the table with the disgusting pig! Dogs are easier to train.

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